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RE: Bound together...then not

in Reflectionslast year

I have experienced losing a loved one due to an accident, and this is an experience that I will remember forever. At the same time, I lost other loved ones due to natural causes. Losing someone is truly painful, and we will always cherish the memories we had with them. I have also lost someone whom I trusted, and I believed loved me, but they betrayed me with their dishonesty.

It feels like a stab in the back, especially when you never expected someone who sleeps under the same roof as you to deceive you. Would it be painful to think that you accepted them in your house for years and, in the end, treated you and your family as enemies? Some said that they are like demons in disguise, and I thank God for keeping me away from such people.

Losing this kind of person is making me realise I have lost my friends and even some jobs, but I am grateful that I am free from such a person. Losing them was a victory for me because I gained much more than before. I guess they can see my potential, which is why they didn't want to hire me to work with them when I was with him. I am better without him.

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It's important to remember that we will always have the memories of the relationships, the people, when they are gone but in int moment of loss of grief it's often easy to be overwhelmed. Losing someone who betrayed you...well, that's a good loss although I assume (I know because we talked a little about it) that it was very hard for you, especially moving forward with others.

Gratitude takes many forms, but feeling grateful for losing negative influences/influencers from one's life is righteous.

I hope you're well.

Gratitude takes many forms, but feeling grateful for losing negative influences/influencers from one's life is righteous.

This is the fourth time someone has told me this. They even said it would be replaced with something better, and I claim it. I don't need to chase them down; they'll come to me on their own. All the right people and the right opportunity come knocking on my door. I'm so grateful to God. 🙏😍

You'll attract the right people by being the right person, liking and valuing yourself.