Life bra, like you say all part of life. If it happens naturally at a steady pace then we don't feel it as much. It's the abrupt break in bonds that tend to shake things up. When you don't always understand why or what went wrong, and valued a particular relationship. I'm not sure of the details, but I do feel that its a very immature selfish person that does this. And often they hid behind the guise of cutting off toxic relations or putting themselves first. When in actual fact that's what they always do, put themselves first. And when you stop putting them first and put yourself first that's when the problems arise. This has happened to me a few times, and though it pains me because I did find value in the person. Most of the time in the long run it becomes a relief for me. Because I don't need to maintain something that was high maintenance for me to begin with. We all grow constantly, sometimes together. Sometimes not. We can't control decisions people make, but we can control how we feel, and how we move from the situation. So we make peace, take the good with us. And be thankful for the time spent together on our journeys. Lessons learnt, and we move forward. We wish them well. Time everything makes it easier, like it always does.
I've purposely left the details out for obvious reasons.
I don't think I'd disappear from a relationship/friendship, just vanish without a word leaving the other person/people hanging out there in no-mans-land. It seems, I don't know wrong somehow. I guess people have their reasons though and because they're them are entitled to do as they please.
I get what the rest of your comment said, and agree. It doesn't always make loss easier to deal with but maybe that onward journey becomes a little easier as it rolls forward.
I hope you're well and thanks for commenting.
Wasn't referring to you in my comment but rather my experience. People just cutting ties. Has happened to me twice before. So I guess that's how I just made peace with it.
Im doing well, knee deep in abusy weekend again but sunday morning taking but easy.... Next stop lunch!
Sorry, my mistake.
Have a nice lunch and the rest of the weekend too.