Many times we lose our life pending on the dream of others, we must start by believing in ourselves, work for our own dreams otherwise we will be living in the dream of another person, but there is a small detail, envy the comparison is what makes us live the life of another person as you say, we must focus on
be their architect, not take someone else's and make it fit or put it together like a Lego set.
If this worked like that it would be great to put together your own destiny your own way.
What works for one won't always work for others which is why it's important to follow ones own path, design life according to the individuals' needs; that's the way towards a better life.
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