An average man will tell you that he wants to have everything before he gets married. When you ask him what he means, he will say he need money, car and so on.
Yes, those things are there to make us comfortable and we need them but not to the point of making it a yardstick in which you use for whether having kids or not
I mean, some people want to extremely wealthy before they get married
It may not work that way at times
Here, the earning world is pretty equal and women want to have financial independence.