Ugh, how frustrating. We live semi rurally so never get those kind of salespeople, but it's not that common here.
In fact, most people when you give them an earful about their bad behavior will try and turn it wround and blame you for their misdeed
Perhaps it's the same thing with you son about the mess he left behind?
Yeah, I am going to leave the entire thing about the mess alone. It is one of those things that I don;t think is worth making a fuss over now that he is out of the house. Plus, we get to do something anew with the basement room, so it worked out.
Ah I'm so glad. Sometimes we go through all those thought processes with our children (grown) and then realise, well, they are adults now and the best thing I can do is just be here when they need me and not go on at them as if they're still kids. Besides, we can vent on Hive haha! Bloody kids!
Yeah, now I am really looking forward to our lunch without that weighing on my mind.