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RE: Without The Energy Within

in Reflectionslast year

"Never judge a book by its cover", they say, but all my life I've seen people judge every damn book by its cover. Then it's about reading and experiencing that book, getting to know the person, and then judging them some more.

Yet, is that a bad thing? Analyzing someone's behavior and then criticizing it, maybe even sharing your thoughts and point of view with them?

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We judge, regardless of whether we criticize or voice our judgement. I don't judge many people openly, because they have their life to lead and my judgement might be bad. However, when their behavior affects mine, I have to judge in order to adjust for their behavior - good or bad.

I don't think criticism is bad, but many people don't know how to give valuable criticism.

but many people don't know how to give valuable criticism.

And those who can't take criticism, and if you "give it to them" anyway, then that's a one-way ticket to their so-called "haters" list. 😂