Fear of losing control is perhaps the fesr that exist in the centre of the most if not all the fears.
you are wise for noticing. I’m only now starting to discover this after years of digging
I’m with you, I have no evidence for trauma being passed down physically, although it feels very likely to me. I do however have first hand experience with trauma being passed down through stories, education and learned behavior.
That's the case with many of us whether or not we acknowledge it.
Have a nice day