Hello. I don't write comments often. But your post got me thinking. What is our life? Life is a priceless gift (yes, perhaps this is very obvious). For me, life is a huge journey. And I take full responsibility for this journey. On my way I meet various fellow travelers. Some of them are good and kind people. Others are only trying to take advantage of me and deceive or betray me. But the path I take depends only on me. Sometimes I ask evil people. It's easier for me. Often we later become friends with such people. They also have their own path. And sometimes these people are forced by various circumstances to act badly. Each of us has the ability to shape our own destiny. We need to inspire each other to build our own path based on our own desires and goals.
A person's path in life is their own, but those paths cross over with others and things occur that effect each, and that's where complications can arise and value can be found also. I feel that's one of the reasons we need to shape our own lives, to guide it towards the outcomes we want because if we do not it could be decided for us. To let our lives go past without some input seems wasteful to me.