When wannabe victims find real victims (as far as what I have seen) they virtue signal them and try and make them feel bad for not empathizing with the fake victims. 'Oh but what about us redheads? We are a minority too!" The stupidest thing I have seen in a while.
So easy to get swept up in the financial and parenting responsibilities which take up so much time and fulfill our duties. Still, it is a discipline thing like those other responsibilities and something we should put almost equal attention on.
lol!! yeah - I have seen this too :)