I can't wear what the other ladies are wearing.

in NeedleWorkMonday2 years ago

Hello Hive.

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Its another beautiful new week and its relieving to see that we are still alive in good health and sound mind.
Regardless of all the accidents, health challenges and everything ravaging the world we still stand our grounds to work for our daily meals and still find a good reason to be creative.

Sometimes ugly situations won't allow us to sew or use our minds for anything creative and positive thing.
Nevertheless if you are still able to come around, we appreciate and celebrate you and pray that you will live in peace and safety anywhere you are around the world.

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Well today I did just a simple task thinking that I might be able to sew some crop top for myself of the remnant or the fabrics I have worked with last Monday.

For every pieces of clothes I find a good use for it instead of allowing it to stay and not be useful.
This was barely a yard and crop top will be fine for it.

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It will be sexy to sew something exposing the naval and probably sew it tight and fitted.
But when I started working, I realized that I can't wear what every other ladies out there wears.
I have a very large belle button and it is not sexy to expose that right 🤓😁🤓😂

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It is not like I am trying to be too religious but I have received some serious home trainings that my conscience has been fixed on what decency is all about.
Decency means different thing to different individuals and while some could expose their bust, cleavage, thighs and still feel decent, I don't feel comfortable showing my naval and trust me you don't wanna see it too 🤓

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Since my crop top was short, I felt that buying and sewing some fringe around the edges and hem might make this beautiful and acts like a cover for my waist like but it seems like am wrong.

I bought 2yards of the fringe for $2 and after sewing everything I still don't feel comfortable with it like this. I cant wear this outside the house or like a casual outfit.

I love the fringe around the edges already but I may have to find some extra coverage underneath while leaving the fringe still attached here

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What does been decent in dressing mean to you and do you feel not comfortable when you see ladies exposing their bodies?..

Thank you for your time and engagements here, I hope that we will have a nice day engaging with everyone in their blog

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Best to feel comfortable in our clothes and how we want to present ourselves to the world; at the same time, our bodies are our bodies, no need to dislike them even if we choose not to show them to the world.

 2 years ago  

That's certainly true.
I have always covered my big naval not because I dislike it 🤓.
And just like you said I want to feel comfortable in whatever I wear.
Thanks for stopping by.

I love this style you've created, out of decency there is still a fashionable statement made.

You slayed it perfectly.🥰

 2 years ago  

Thanks dearie 💖💕🌹

 2 years ago (edited) 

Hello Monica. How cute this top turned out on you, the fringes are a nice detail. As for what clothes to wear, I believe that any garment that one feels comfortable with should be enough. If they don't like it, look the other way haha.

Greetings, happy day 😃.

 2 years ago  

You are soooooo funny...

Okay I will continue looking the other way 🤓

 2 years ago  

😅😅

Hello monica-ene, I loved the detail of the feces, they give the top a great style.

Greetings!

 2 years ago  

Greeting dearie and thanks for stopping by 💕💖🌹🌼💃🍷

I think it’s very admirable of you to care about decency and the way you present yourself. I used to wear things that revealed more of my body but when I became a wife and mother that all changed (and I’m glad it did). There are parts of my body that are only for my husband to see and admire and I want to be the best modest example for my children as I can possibly be. I wouldn’t even be comfortable any more wearing those things I used to wear.

I love this fringed crop top you came up with. This is a good example of how you can still be cute and fashionable without having to show different parts of your body. I honestly wish there was more modesty like this going around ~

 2 years ago  

I am glad that we are in the same line of thought. My mum was my role model and an example of decency.
The virtues instilled on me can never be forgotten, my conscience is soiled on doing the right thing knowing fully well that there are other ladies looking up to us.
Thank you for been a good example to your children. Morality really starts from the home and I wish that we have more decency in the world too.
Shalom.

Morality really starts from the home

Very true and so important to realize this!

I thank you as well for being a good example…in your home and here on Hive in our community ~ 💓

Your clothes you make are as beautiful as you are.😍 Each piece is made with a lot of love, I can tell. I am very glad that you consider being/looking decent is important to you! Many women do not seem concerned about any decency here in America.😞 I wish you happiness, and send my love and best wishes to you and your loved ones.🤗🤗🤗

 2 years ago  

Awwnnn... That's so kind of you.
I truly appreciate this and wish you more peace, good health and happiness.
Regards to your son too. 💕🌼