Your words are inspiring, and I can't imagine 5 children, you really have your work cut out for you 😉.
In some ways I am okay with traditional life, the husband working to earn money, and the wife responsible for home affairs. I am also good at cooking, cleaning, parenting, homeschooling and all the old-fashioned duties of a wife, this is because I have lived alone as a bachelor for many years, and am very good at living alone.
The most important thing for me is to share the responsibilities equally regardless of what they are, and right now that is something we are working. Balance is needed in all aspects of life, and I hope we will keep working on that. Thank you for thinking of my family and I, you are kind soul and I think you understand my situation all too well 😁.