For me, I'll first measure the urgency or importance of the finance-stance.
I think the more urgent it is, the more scarier it actually becomes especially when you realize that means (money) is not something you can afford. Personally it's scary not to be able to control a lot. I have a condition, and sometimes no matter the medications I take, I still know that I can't control how well I can go into remission.
Love the wording on "finance-stance" :)
Thank you. Yeah. I was just thinking and I coined the word.