I think the fact that many aspects of life are not under our control is a scary feeling to deal with. Even, when we try to expect the unexpected, there are still lot of unexpectations that we never think about.
For me, I'll first measure the urgency or importance of the finance-stance, then act accordingly and within the means at my disposal. Sometimes, letting it be can work in the short term, especially if it isn't important.
Love the wording on "finance-stance" :)
I think the more urgent it is, the more scarier it actually becomes especially when you realize that means (money) is not something you can afford. Personally it's scary not to be able to control a lot. I have a condition, and sometimes no matter the medications I take, I still know that I can't control how well I can go into remission.
Thank you. Yeah. I was just thinking and I coined the word.