We are all created for a purpose, it's disheartening how many of us focus much attention on others, seeing what they've become or are.
Surprisingly, a lot out there don't know what assignment they've been bestowed with.
A very practical example is living a Christ like life. We all know the difficulty attached to living a Christian life.
Many of us feel where there is love and acceptance is where we all should be.
Many of us feel that the kind of lifestyle someone is living is the kind every one should live.
Many of us feel that the kind job, ambition, qualification someone has is what everyone should have.
Basically, the places that looks hard is sometimes the place for you because there, you find your ultimate strength to carry our your life given assignment.
Some run away from places where they can't find love and acceptance in the atmosphere, but that might be the place where you are meant to dominate and fulfill purpose.
We often copy the pattern other people use to do their assignment, thinking is the best. We wait to check the end results of others without learning how or what kind of bitter pills they took to get the assignment done. It doesn't work that way.
I remember in school, how we copy each others assignment when given one hahahahahahaha... Some will wait till they hear the announcement for submission before they start looking for who to copy from. And after copying, when marking, the teacher see uniform work, what?
we are meant to do our own research and give out our own solutions. Same with life, we are to do our own assignment uniquely not to copy one another. We are to be in charge, dominate and not give room to value less our competencies.