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RE: We're all POB Curators

in Proof of Brain4 years ago

Your point about partiality is an interesting one, and it's something I've touched on in another comment about the intentions of larger stakeholders.

It's known by some of the longer-standing members that I've picked out some things and highlighted it surrounding the larger stakeholders. That's always to find out what their intentions are . Without this kind of information being shared and some feedback being received, we cannot be sure of anything and we shouldn't assume good faith.

I think that being honest will always be the right thing to do, whether or not it bothers whoever it is directed at!

I'm with @trostparadox, this is solid.

+20 POB for dropping the truth bombs


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we cannot be sure of anything and we shouldn't assume good faith.

I totally agree with "we cannot be sure of anything ...".

I disagree with "... and we shouldn't assume good faith."

In my life, I have found it best to be skeptical of almost every claim, until backed up by solid logical argument or evidence. However, I have likewise found it best to always assume the best in terms of intentions. Many times once the facts come out, we find good intentions (or at least an absence of mal-intent) behind actions that turned out badly or simply went against what we thought was best.

Life is too short to be constantly worrying about other people's intentions.

Some of the most destructive government policies were put in place with relatively good intentions (take the U.S. welfare system, for example).

When all is said and done, intentions don't matter (on earth, anyways). God will judge the intents of the heart.


... always to find out what their intentions are.

Might be splitting hairs, here, but I think you are getting at motivations rather than intentions.

This does seem like a more sane approach. The emotions associated with assuming bad intentions aren't healthy and it isn't worth worrying over (especially in this instance).

Might be splitting hairs, here, but I think you are getting at motivations rather than intentions.

Yes, you're correct there. I've been throwing around the word "intentions" willy nilly. It is definitely directed more towards people's motivations and not any plans in particular. Time to consider what other words I've been using frequently without fully understanding the meaning behind them and how they come across, lol. Always a learning opportunity.

Thanks for the food for thought, it has helped.


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Time to consider what other words I've been using frequently without fully understanding the meaning behind them ...

Here are a couple to think about:

  • story vs account
  • believe vs affirm

Our pastor pointed out a few years ago that when we refer to "Bible stories" to our children, we inadvertently give the impression that they are just that, 'stories'. Whenever it is an historical account, we should use the word "account" (e.g. "the account of David and Goliath"), because it more accurately reflects truth and reality as opposed to fiction and mere storytelling.

Somewhere a few years ago, I read an article explaining why we should avoid saying "I believe" because of the relativism in society today. It is easier for someone to dismiss your 'beliefs' because they are just that, subjective beliefs.

If it is something that you believe with conviction, it is better to say "I affirm" -- this conveys not just that you "believe" something (in a subjective sense) but that you affirm it as objectively true. Doesn't mean they have to agree with you, just that you are drawing a line between subjective 'opinions' and claims of objective truth.

The emotions associated with assuming bad intentions aren't healthy and it isn't worth worrying over ...

Yes, it is in your personal best interest to assume good intentions. Life is more pleasant that way.