To be honest the best way I attend to them is to blacklist them and avoid them.
I'm a kind of person don't really say much in words but my expression tells the whole thing and way I'm feeling and with that since I know I'm not a nagging person I chose taking action against such behavior coming from friends.
If the nature of our friendship is really going side ways and you keep putting me in trouble at every given time one thing I will do is avoid you and cut contacts with you.
When it's comes to my family is a total different things entirely as everything is treated to be blood related and surely ways to handle it will come or inlet you be on your own.