Q. This is more of psychology question than social. How do you handle people who create problem in your life? This could be your friends, or even family members who want you to live in a specific way. How do you handle people who make you miserable or uncomfortable?
Just like with covid, social distancing ;-)
On a serious note: by making sure they understand I live my life how I want to and that I don't like it how someone tries to tell me what I should and shouldn't do. Of course they might mean well and try to give advise, but ultimately you live your life on your terms.
Just gotta see what your approach is gonna be, it's different with close family and a bit harder to be subtle but clear compared to friends or generall acquaintances
That's such an idealistic scenario but unfortunately doesn't happen like that in the real world. People just don't believe in live and let live concept. Poking noses is an all-time favourite job, haha.
True! Doesn't mean you have to accept it and have it influence you too much. I guess you can't always make sure it won't happen. But by being clear about what you accept and especially what crosses your boundary goes a long way
good question.
for me my life is different from others and no one can live my life for me and i cant withstand someone imposing what i don't want to do on me. Remember the Great Philosopher Socrates said "Unexamined life does not worth living"
if you ended up living the life you don't want to live one might live to regret it. neither people nor situation should not force one to do what he or she does not want to live.
To be honest the best way I attend to them is to blacklist them and avoid them.
I'm a kind of person don't really say much in words but my expression tells the whole thing and way I'm feeling and with that since I know I'm not a nagging person I chose taking action against such behavior coming from friends.
If the nature of our friendship is really going side ways and you keep putting me in trouble at every given time one thing I will do is avoid you and cut contacts with you.
When it's comes to my family is a total different things entirely as everything is treated to be blood related and surely ways to handle it will come or inlet you be on your own.
Some of them you can completely ignore. Like your neighbours may be. But then there are some which are like lice, can't get away and they keep drinking your blood. I also don't understand how to get rid of such people in my life, let me look for responses here.
@sugandhaseth that is true,there are some people that are just too difficult to ignore no matter the situation
What worked for me might not work for others,but in my own case what i did was that i ignored them,i believe silence is the best answer and it made them to forget of their existence and that helped me..
Well, it will be very difficult for someone to affect my emotional or phycological state due to my nature. One I sense negative energy or vibe from a friend or family I simply ignore in the hope that the person will understand but if the person remain persistent on getting on my nerves, I voice out. No body want to see me in that state has
I loss my cool (been quite a while since I switched into that mood)
I just try to avoid them as best as I can.
I don't have a lot of friends but the ones I have know who I really am and they are ok with that so they wont try to change me
A swift kick in the ass for those type of people or snippity snip snip snip them out of my life.
Firstly I will say thank you for bring up a question like this to handle people who make your life uncomfortable it's not a big deal all you need to do is just to avoid them. Give them some space.
Secondly you try not to seek advice from them stop giving them attention that's the way out. stop giving them attention in the process of doing this they will think you are avoiding them but you know what you're doing.
To me I will say that is the way can I do people that make life uncomfortable to me
One of my biggest saying in life is learn how to move away from every individual ego knows how to bring problem out of every solution,so distancing yourself from such individual or friend is a major key to live a good life,you have to be very watchful and careful cause those set of people might even plan to bring someone down
Just ignore and focus on yourself. Work harder, fulfil your dreams and be successful. Success is best revenge. Don't let others decide how your life gonna be. You are the master of your life, be focused and have confidence in you. Aim high and dream big. 👍😊
Honestly, it's tough to ignore. Because these are not the usual people and you have expectations from them. And when they are not met and they show absurd behaviour, it feels really bad.
Normally, one should not expect much from anyone but I'm not sure if that's a possible human behaviour.
No matter how much we do for people but we can't please everyone. There will be always a few who will criticize and taunt you. Its better let your actions speak for you. Because when you achieve something they are gonna have sleepless nights 😂👍
Honestly, it's tough to ignore. Because these are not the usual people and you have expectations from them. And when they are not met and they show absurd behaviour, it feels really bad.
Normally, one should not expect much from anyone but I'm not sure if that's a possible human behaviour.
Of course this is what is needed to face life and it wars, I totally agreed with you