Hello community!
We are born free, we are born beautiful and unrestricted by the barriers of society. We are educated in a rigid way to fit in, but this education is based on fear and survival. Let your baby grow naturally and be himself! We are told from an early age what is wrong and right, beautiful and ugly, what we are allowed to do and what we are not allowed to do. All this later leads us to a deep lack of self-acceptance, anxiety and self-doubt.
Look at a child carefully and you will see the brightness in his eyes! Look at an adult carefully and you will see the unhappiness in his eyes. He is already dead, he is divided into so many concepts that he has forgotten who he really is. A child is one with himself, an adult has long forgotten this pleasant feeling.
Why are you afraid when you subjugate your child for the simple reason that he put his finger in his nose, telling him that he is not polite? Such a natural act, so simple... And after all, what is really inappropriate, when concepts vary so much depending on cultures? Why are you afraid when you tell him to eat a certain way? Nature has already given him the intelligence he needs to survive. Who are you to doubt this?
Children are as beautiful as they are still pure, still small and natural. To spoil such beauty is the greatest sin. Maybe your parents didn't know all this informations, but you can look at your child carefully and give him something better. Let him be and enjoy him. He can bring you back to life, you can only bring him to death.
The psychology of the human psyche is this: what you know you are NOT allowed to do, you want to do more and more.
Allow the angel to do what is "forbidden" and his interest will disappear. In more developed countries this method is practiced and gives amazing results.
Thank you for your precious time and reading!
There's a lot of truth in what you say, the way we make children fit in really has to be reconsidered but for sure this reconsideration would not find that we should let Children act according to their natural inclinations because some natural inclinations are dangerous to the individual and to society. Some would have to be curbed and new behaviours would have to be learnt. But when it comes to natural behaviours that are not dangerous, of course children should be let to be themselves, the current compulsion to fit in is excessive.