Good morning all as I will like to share some few things running through my mind for a very long time..
If someone hurt you deeply and you have try your best to forgive the person but many time you still feel the pains the person as cause you,in that case how can someone forget it even after you have forgiven the person..
As humans the issue of forgiveness can be a really difficult one that the flesh often struggle to deal with. In the case like you just mentioned, the thing is to constantly pray to the Holy Spirit to remove and form of unforgiveness in our heart and do our part in praying for the individual. The more we do that, the more the hurt in our seem to diminish.
Sometimes we don't forget, but as long as you've forgiven from the heart it's all good. Overtime the hurt will fade away. We should also pray that love should fill our heart, that we should have the heart of Christ. The more our heart gets filled with perfect love, the more hurt and pain fades away. Perfect love casted out all impurities. This thing sometimes requires conscious efforts.
I just can't forget. My husband says it's a problem with me and I must fight it. But it's not possible for me to do that. These are actual feelings we are talking about. You just can't end us getting hurt one day and getting back to normal the next day. Even forgiveness needs time. But forgetting things is difficult especially when they happen again and again.
Although I have forgotten a lot of them from a lot of people but if I go back and think about them, these were for people who don't really matter to me now. But those who do matter, I just can't foregt.
Yes it hard, to forgive and forget is very for us, but we must do it, so how are we going to do it.
You know sincere this doing again and again, we have same issue with God, which means we sin against God, again and again.
And we ask for forgiveness of sin and answer, and we have been told that we should forgive and forget.
So that God can forgive us and forget our sin
Yes mate, forgivenes is the best thing to do in life though it might be hard maybe to the offence that we are to give others on but of all just like you said and I want to agree with you that ,it is advisable that we forgive each other.
Forgiveness comes from God and we should also learn how to do that,just like one part of the Lord prayers says
Thank you for good answer, we must learn how to forgive other, because the person that hurt you today, he met be your saviour tomorrow.
It's really hard. Forgiveness stems from love. We recognize that we too were in error at times and needed forgiveness. There is a lot of power when we recieve forgiveness. Forgetting may not be possible. Personally I trust all judgment to the Almighty... but when I meet these people again my stomach still turns. Some of them don't even know that they hurt us. We need wisdom. Sometimes it is better to leave it alone and sometimes it is better to tell them.
Yes forgiveness is hard and forgetting met not be possible.
But we do say our father, who art in heaven hallowed be thy name, your kingdom come your will be done on earth, as it in heaven, give us today our daily bread, forgive us our trespasses, we will forgive those trespasses again us.
Now that is hard to forgive and forget, how will God forgive us.
In Jesus' prayer I see forgiving our debtors as the fruit of receiving Jesus' forgivness not a prequisite.
Ok, may God help us, because this issue is very serious, which we must learn.
It look so easy to forgive but in other to forget it is always very hard my believe on this is that if you have it in mind that you have offended someone more than that and the person still forgive and die for you then you shouldn't find it hard any longer
with prayer and grace of God you can over come this.
Hello, when we talk about forgiveness it means that we have forgotten the action of damage that has been done to us, so if you say that you have forgiven but still have the consequences of the damage caused. It means that you have not totally forgiven from your heart.
One thing I will applaud is the heart to forgive and once we are able to forgive the person that wrong us then we have already taken the first step which is very important.
I know how annoying human beings are when it comes to hurting people and this always pains more when you happen to be in a relationship with someone whom you love so so dearly and wouldn't want to loose the person. But this is a different thing anyway.
When someone hurts you dearly and you can get to forget about it even after forgiven the person, I will suggest you refuse the way which you communicate with this person in play so that you won't be affected that much.
There is a saying about forgive and forget. Sometimes we may forgive but for us to forget most times don't happen right away sometimes it takes time to heal l.
So this will only happened when we take our mind of it and give it enough time to heal and do as much as possible not to think about it.