Yes children are so different to each other and we should never compare them to each other.
very child is different and unique. Each child has its own needs, demands, habits, and routine. Some children like to wake up early, others might like to sleep till late; some might like milk and curd, others might not. Comparing your child to other children is the last thing that should be on your mind as a parent .
That is what some parents don't know, even though who are twin they are different type and they don't do something.
One can be fast and one can slow, one can be hard working the other one can be lazy.
Because I have twin as a friend, we Both went to the same school and I know there behavior, the tiaye she is very hard working but her kehinde she lazy.
As parents, we must understand that our child is unique, special, and skilled in his own way. They will learn things at their own pace, react basis their judgement and intellect and do things how they like (not how we like). When we compare our children to others, we are actually putting a lot of pressure on them to do things beyond their capability. This pressure keeps building on the child, some are able to perform while others are not. And when they don't perform, there is a feeling of disappointment.
The parents should know that this cause problem for the children, especially when you are disturbing the child it will make him or her to have depression.
As a parent we need to be encouraged our children always and correct them rightly.
Some kids are actually slow but if the parents motivate them in the right direction and help them be confident around children of the same age group, such children get to track very easily and normally. It's more about the parents and less about the child actually.