Yes children are so different to each other and we should never compare them to each other.
very child is different and unique. Each child has its own needs, demands, habits, and routine. Some children like to wake up early, others might like to sleep till late; some might like milk and curd, others might not. Comparing your child to other children is the last thing that should be on your mind as a parent .
That is what some parents don't know, even though who are twin they are different type and they don't do something.
One can be fast and one can slow, one can be hard working the other one can be lazy.
Because I have twin as a friend, we Both went to the same school and I know there behavior, the tiaye she is very hard working but her kehinde she lazy.
As parents, we must understand that our child is unique, special, and skilled in his own way. They will learn things at their own pace, react basis their judgement and intellect and do things how they like (not how we like). When we compare our children to others, we are actually putting a lot of pressure on them to do things beyond their capability. This pressure keeps building on the child, some are able to perform while others are not. And when they don't perform, there is a feeling of disappointment.
The parents should know that this cause problem for the children, especially when you are disturbing the child it will make him or her to have depression.
As a parent we need to be encouraged our children always and correct them rightly.
What a very good contribution here on this topic and I want to say that parents or guidances too should have enough time and energy to place more attention to thier child or Ward,cause it will really help to get the best out of such child once he /she is well understand too and I want to say that thier are things that our children at times find so hard to share,but once will know them well enough we will get to know those things without even asking them at all
Yes, parents, these days are not able to give enough time to their children. A child's behaviour, to a great extent, is governed by our actions and how we teach them. If we don't spend enough time with them, we definitely don't have the right to compare them to anyone else.