A question to the people who are reading the commentaries: What is the subject that you like to talk about every time that you have a chance?
I will start: I like to talk about relationships, the ups, and the downs, the challenges and the victories. The human race is about relationships, so, I like to talk about that.
Comedy is genre that interest me.
I'm big on SPT/Splinterlands so I'll likely comment on content that mentions those things.
Nice, now I understand your profile picture!! I like Splinterlands too, but I'm without time to play... this is sad...
I also enjoy talking about relationship, there's so many minor reason why we have fallouts in relationships, I like to hear the experience of people and share mine too to help improve the quality of my relationship with others
If we can encourage others by eliminating criticism. Then we can build a good relationship.
what do you think?
I think that's a good idea. If there's going to be criticism then it should be constructive criticism.
Healthy Relationships are needed for POB community. If we can build the strong Relationships, we will grow quickly. It is most important
The issue with this is there are so many conflicting views on things across POB and across HIVE as a whole. Those different opinions will always cause tension and conflict. Without mature conflict resolution and ways to solve issues that don't damage the parties and bystanders the POB community will struggle to come together! I still have high hopes though and have continued staking every token I receive as a reward!
Everyone has different opinions. Because of this, there may be conflict. But they should not downvote for this.
Good work @dibblers.dabs . I hope you will become a whale soon.
Me too! I am making progress every day towards my first 1000 POB staked- baby steps though!
Yes you're right about this as is one of the major factors that affect the pob community however Individual having conflict because of diff in opinion should handle there issues matured without raising attention to themselves.
I fully agree with that. It would be much better for the community if we could manage to solve these problems another way. I am not sure how though.
I agree with you. I think the key to growth in this platform is building strong and sustainable relationships
Up I don't totally agree with that, human race is more than relationship but I will say is focused on survival in life, the quest for comfortable and self sufficient. Yes relationship may be a support to that but if human race is about relationship, that means we are struggling for nothing.
Well, I understand the part of be focused on survival and such, but I think its goes far in the long term.
I will share a cientific vision that changed the way schoolars see some things:
"“A student once asked anthropologist Margaret Mead, “What is the earliest sign of civilization?” The student expected her to say a clay pot, a grinding stone, or maybe a weapon.
Margaret Mead thought for a moment, then she said, “A healed femur.”
A femur is the longest bone in the body, linking hip to knee. In societies without the benefits of modern medicine, it takes about six weeks of rest for a fractured femur to heal. A healed femur shows that someone cared for the injured person, did their hunting and gathering, stayed with them, and offered physical protection and human companionship until the injury could mend.
Mead explained that where the law of the jungle—the survival of the fittest—rules, no healed femurs are found. The first sign of civilization is compassion, seen in a healed femur.”"
Source
Without other people, we are in danger, and the things that we can obtain are limited... Relationships, even in a minnor level, are essential. Almost everythin that you use are produced by another person, be clothes, equipaments and such... food too. So...
Community is made of individual relationships. These individuals bump and bruise each other everyday. From afar it looks as if these relationships stay together because of tolerance but there is a lot more needed. Without forgiveness there is no healing and without hope there is no direction and without direction there is no purpose or meaning so relationships crumble. In essence the glue that holds relationships together is forgiveness, healing and growing.
Well surmised. Indeed Forgiveness helps to patch the wounds in relationship and strengthens it going forward.
Hope individuals drop their egos and pride and let forgiveness come in so we can move past the conflict has a community and truly grow
I think forgiveness has already happened here on POB. I see signs of a deeper understanding and new relationships built.
It's like kids playing in a playground.
If they are all playing by themselves with one kid on the slides and one kid on the swings and one kid on the monkey bars then we cannot say that they have become friends. In order to become friends they have to interact. And in the course of interaction some of those kids may become hurt.
I'm not gonna say whose fault it was because there are all guilty in some way or another. I'm just gonna say that sometimes it takes a little scrimmage before a friendships is started. One of them then realizes this fight is not what they wanted and they say, "I'm sorry." The two cry a little, laugh about it and fix a few things and then go on playing.
The world was like this when I was growing up and when I walk around the playground of our school I see the same things going on today. It's only the big people who have a difficult time playing this game. I can understand, it's because they have the most to lose.
Yeah. Conflict is sometimes needed for true growth. Great we're gradually getting past this
I'm feeling good about the brain now.
Nicely said!! I agree!! Thanks for your reply!!
Relationship is also something I can relate with. Not always fun but the downs always tend to make the bond much stronger if properly addressed
Yes! Nicely said! If the bad moments are addressed well, people can bond more, but if not...
Well, a lot to think!
Thanks for your reply!!
I have a big problem that I try to handle sometimes, which is always talking about politics, haha.
But not the generic left-right, but trying to talk about the importance of the legislature, and I always try to get the word out about libertarianism.
Talking about politics is a tricky action. To much people don't like to have their beliefs questioned... And this is worst in Brazil with the scenary that we have right? I like to talk about it too, but lately, I prefer not, this give me more time to do what I need to do.
What is yours is yours, That's all I know
One who understands feelings,
And the one who is beyond emotion is stranger , The one who is near even by staying far away is our own, And the one who is far away even after being close is a stranger.
Relationships are very sensitive, delicate and complicated. It's very easy to start a relationship but to maintain is hard task. Relationship tests patience, dedication, honesty and integrity. Relationships makes and defines who we are. It is the most important emotion of human life.
The development of any relationship depends largely on honesty. Transparency to keep the relationship good and strong at all times
True, People usually take relationships just for granted. With time the the value of relationships fares and that's where issues begin. We should keep ourselves engaged, rebuild and always try to give more to a relationship. Relationships should not be satisfying or contented, it is a endless sea, we should always ready to dive into.
Yes. have the good relationships in pob community
A good start of healthy relationship on POB is interaction and engagement. We should have more such talk and engagement contest. It will bring more of us together. I would thank @vempromundo.pob to come out with this interesting activity. Let's open up and build a positive relationship on POB and grow together as community and pob family.