Coincidentally I just purchased a copy of Who Moved My Cheese after thinking of it recently when discussing change with a client. I read it back in my college days for a psych class, and its simplicity resonated. Sounds like you are definitely well overdue for a change!
Hang in there girl. Sometimes the hardest part is finally making the decision, now time to let go and just ride it out to the finish line! I'm sure the money stuff will work out as it should. Glad you have that wonderful man by your side to support you with what's much more important than money.
And you know I will happily post funny garden photos to keep your spirits up along the way. Though more appropriately to the metamorphosis you are about to undergo, I saw these guys this morning in the meantime...
