What is the best way to handle a boss at office that is requesting for sex from you and you are not interested and you do not want to loose your job too??
What is the best way to handle a boss at office that is requesting for sex from you and you are not interested and you do not want to loose your job too??
The best way if you don't intend to lose your job is to have a leverage over him by setting up him and getting the required evidence to nail on those charges. For you seek to this, you must prepared for anything and I believe other option such as making your stance on your disagreement would have been communicated before now. If you don't want to go this route, offering your resignation might be a good idea. You can always get another job.
In my opinion, you should let the boss know that you aren't willing to do such. Do not be rude in your manner of communication. Let him or her see reasons why it won't happen. Also avoid talks that will be leading to romance or sex.
The way you can handle your boss, firstly you put it in prayer that God should help you and give you wisdom, knowledge to handle the issue with out loosen your job.
If you have a finance, you telling him, but not the one that he will go and fight your boss, but for him to trust you.
You will tell your boss with respect that you are not interested and you must be rude to him. And make sure you do your work perfectly, so that there won't be room for him to advantage that or excuse to sack you.
And don't collect any gift from him or allow him visit your home. And you continue praying.
Try and pretend like you are ready for it...then use that to get an evidence of his sexual harassment ,then report him to the police..
This is definitely good advice, it is a good strategy, although if things can be fixed in a more subtle way, it would be much better. Tell your boss clearly that you have no interest in having sex with him, in the same way that it is not the only job that exists on the face of the earth. Let's value our honesty and don't let a slob come to force us to do things we don't want to.
Have say this before and I will say it again once you have this at back of you mind that no one can help you except he or she is being sent from God and also have it in mind to receive disappointment from every human,i don't know if you really get what I'm saying.?
Putting this two things in mind will help a lot because if someone you trusted so much do you bad you won't be move why because you have a mindset to except evil as far as the person is from man..
Although we still have some people that are still ready to help without any cost, but if it is something else we won't be move
Have say this before and I will say it again once you have this at back of you mind that no one can help you except he or she is being sent from God and also have it in mind to receive disappointment from every human,i don't know if you really get what I'm saying.?
Putting this two things in mind will help a lot because if someone you trusted so much do you bad you won't be move why because you have a mindset to except evil as far as the person is from man..
Although we still have some people that are still ready to help without any cost, but if it is something else we won't be move
Yes I love the point but is possible she mighty still loss your job
Yeah you have a valid point,but i think at least the boss will get punished
Definitely I totally agreed with you on this,no one should try to take advantage of you just because of job issues, setting him up is the best thing
This types of act self should be stopped in our community ,it is a mean of misusing power or authority that won't last
Yes it is a foolish act and i am planning of leaving..
Boldly express your opinion. And you need to know what you stand for. If he refuses leave the place for him.
It is really unethical and uncalled for, for a boss to be demanding for sex in an office.
Yeah that is a good advice..prevention is better than cure..
is Only God that will help us, a lot of issues like this are very common..and many as fall victim just because their don't want to loss their job..
This same issue happen to me very sister her boss what trying to ask her out she refuse and tell him that can not work, on faithful day when she was try to clean up the office the man just came and grab her from behind and that was what break the cow back after several warming she gave the man a dirty slap and walk out of the office..
And most funniest things is that she was close to the family and the man's wife like this sister,after the issue it was the man the reported to his wife that the lady as being trying to seduce him from the office several times and today he decided to send her away that is life for you.
To me I will advice you go and tell him you are married and in your husband house their is a taboo that no other man must have anything with you but if it happens by mistake both the man and you will die..if you tell him this and he still go ahead then definitely the place is not worthy of working because he can take your life because of having a fun with you
Wow this is a great contribution from you,good response..