Honestly all children are very different and very unique, comparison of children's of nowadays is inevitable as you said because there are some children when feeding them he or she will like playing and there are some that playing always be a distraction for them you should just study the one you are lucky with, try to love them and no compared him or her with anyone
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Yes, that's true. Every child will behave differently and you won't get anything out of comparison. You can't induce a specifc behaviour or habits in your child. They are who they are, and we must accept and learn to deal with them that way