I'm so sorry for your loss, what an emotional roller coaster this must be for you and the family :(
How sad that your father didn't make it in time, how is he handling that?
Your family pictures make me smile every time, even though the reason for the post is beyond sad for you, the love is so clear from reading and seeing the pictures.
Take good care of yourself too dear !LUV !LADY
Thank you for stopping by and for your kind words here and on all of my other “my family is all dying and I am sad” posts. ❤️❤️
I appreciate it and you so much.
I am no sure how my dad is doing. He is very stoic and holds his emotions in most of the time. I see little cracks here and there, but then he stiffens up and pushes them back in.
I think I am really sad about him not getting there. It is a combo of a lot of missed opportunities over the last 4 years. My family really took to heart the isolate during Covid stuff. I work in healthcare, so my friends and co-workers were social distancing, my mom was so sick and ny dad didn’t want to exacerbate that, so he was staying away from everyone. And I know why we all did that, but I am just so sad about the time we all lost to be together. So when my mom didn’t get to see my grandma before she died, and now dad didn’t see his sister… it just compounds that feeling of loss and missed opportunities to be together. My extended family used to spend so much time together. And I really miss that. The good thing about my aunt being sick and mom being sick.. I have seen my bigger family more in thr last week than I had since Christmas 2019. And that has been soooooo great.
Some proof of that below. A couple of photos from the gathering we held after my aunt’s funeral on Wednesday
I respect you so much for being able to go through all of this the way you are and still see the positive things. It's a gift and you should definitely cherish that <3
It took me a long time to see the bright side instead of the negative things only, so I'm speaking from experience.
In terms of family, I feel sad for your whole family that this is going the way it is, at the same time I see a great strong loving family who supports each other and there's so much love, I can feel it all the way here in Spain.
Hopefully, the rest of you can make some more memories being together.
It's really sad for your dad, and before that for your mother, I can see how that's something that stings especially after the covid years, lockdowns, isolating, that all adds up doesn't it?
I want to say don't forget to take care of yourself but I can see you're not alone so I believe that will be taken care of ;)
Much !LUV and let's hope there is some time for happy vibes now to balance out the grief!
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