Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. In this Modern era, we have an advanced generation. To look after our kids properly, we need to be modern parents. Otherwise, we can't take care of our kids. Mobile Phones, Laptops, Tablets, and Computers have the fastest means of communication and are a source of socialism. The Internet has broken all the barriers, and it is easy to land in the Virtual World. Every kid, when they started growing, parents handed their phones to them. The story of the scrolling Cartoon ended with many good and bad things. It is Insane when parents don't pay attention to them, and these things become toxic for them.
How to be a good Parent?
It is easy to give rise to kids, but their care is one of the difficult tasks,s, especially in this most advanced era. Children who don't get enough exposure from their parents start adopting bad habits. It is the main reason curses like Child Pornography as well as Child Crimes are increasing in our society. It is the failure of parents who don't educate their kids about good and bad evils. I'm still unmarried but I have one of the perfect parents in the world. What I learned from them and how they have adapted me into a good child are awesome things to be shared here.
I always feel proud and the luckiest person in this world because I have the most caring and lovely parents. From my childhood, I never found my parents to be strict or too soft to let any evil impress my life. They are friendly, pious, and good guardians. My every mistake, although they have forgiven me, they have also gifted me a lesson so that I can't repeat the same mistakes again. Moreover, they have shared real-life stories from their lives so that I can get experience from them. They taught me how to respect elders, how to love women, how to deal with relatives, and how to tackle difficulties in life. After clearing each and every aspect of life, they allowed me to decide to make decisions. In many instances, I was wrong, and I had to bear the loss, but they never scolded or beat me; instead, I found them unstoppable, supportive personalities. Whenever I'm stuck in life, their guardian torch is always shiny for me.
Primarily, nowadays, parents are overprotective, which is a toxic thing for the growth of their kids. We should allow our kids to grow freely. First, we give them learning about everything and let them use their full potential to tackle the situations. Everyone can make mistakes; we should be stealthy about them. We should never leave our kids alone and should monitor every activity. If they are found guilty or engaged in anything bad, then there is no need to be aggressive. We should sit beside them and explain everything and also let them explain what things forced them to commit crimes or evils. Then, we should have a plan on how we can eradicate these things from their lives in a pleasant environment.
Final Thoughts
Parents always have a soft corner for their kids; it is good, but they always should not be lenient or ignorant. They should be a guardian, neither strict nor soft. They should protect them but don't give them a feeling of possession. If they make mistakes, it is not a problem. We always make mistakes and learn. We should be sincere with them so that they will share every good or bad aspect of their lives with you. Parents are the most caring persons in this world. Their love and care for us are unparalleled. Being a son, I always feel comfortable when I act on instructions given by my parents. We should follow what our parents want from us.
This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content Helicopter Parenting. I hope, you have enjoyed my post.
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Parents are divine gift and I agree with it but parents can be a curse if they try to dominate kids. I think it's better not to live a life rather than living life as puppet.
They can be curse but we have to understand our faith. God has blessed a mother with a soft heart and Heaven is under her feet. In this regard, there is reason to understand nature of the parents.
I agree with the sentence Raising children is easy, but taking care of them is one of the difficult tasks. There are many challenges in taking care of children in the digital era.
Yeah, nowadays it is hard to raise a good kid. We have to be strict sometimes. Thank you!
Too much leniency spoils the kid and makes him more vulnerable to society’s evil ehile a strict and imposing behaviour diminish their personality, a proper balance js required in which encouraging atmosphere is provided that nourish their personality and develops rationality in their decisions
Yeah, we should understand the role of parenting. All time soft heart or strict heart will not work for raising a good kid.