Do Movies and Novels cause of couple fights?
Marriage is a beautiful relationship and we expect a lot from our partner. Romantic movies and novels raise the bar of expectations between partners.
But is this a correct statement or it's just an overrated thing? We do understand a couple wanna go to an expensive place for a honeymoon or simply wanna celebrate marriage like a certain actor or a novel character.
Once the first baby is born they might wanna buy shoes even before the baby is not born. Baby practically doesn't need shoes to wear but still, we buy them. Are hype about expensive marriage, clothing, and an expensive honeymoon really because of movies and novels? I would highly disagree on this one. Even if we expand the topic into all ways of communication and social media even then I disagree. It all looks sweet and romantic at the start and it's natural for a couple to have higher expectations from relation. If you compare it to your first time investing you were hyped that you are going to be rich until you lose money. First day of school is also the same as at the start most of us wanna become doctors, engineers, etc.
In any new thing/event that happened in our lives, it's natural to act differently. The same can be said about a new couple. Once you spend time with your partner, you will have an idea of the budget and you will lower your expectation or should we say realistic expectations. Because of human's habit of blaming we can't always blame TikTok, movies, novels, and other things. Just put your efforts into understanding your partner and your expectations will be realistic.
Conclusion:
I hope you learned from this blog. While media plays a role in influencing our lives, a relationship of marriage is stronger and we do understand the needs, requirements, and budget of our partner. We just have to spend time with our partner! If you read this far say thank you to your partner for everything they do for you. It would be a small memory or a big event but you always have some good memories with them. Appreciate little things in life and enjoy your life, enjoy it while it lasts.
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I felt it as personal! :)
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Truly, at every first approach, there is always a special different arrangements for it, but as soon as you get used to it, you think that thee is no need for add any new or different arrangements or special thing...
Yup, depends on person to person.
Sometimes it is better we just don't expect too much from our partners, understanding our partner as well plays a vital role in helping the relationship grow.
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for reading.
People have a certain way they live already even if influenced by anything so we just just live very well with others.
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thanks for your feedback
Welcome 🤗
Also, many people share their luxurious life on status, which makes people feel inferior. When they compare their life with theirs, they ignore every blessing in their life and demand more to their partners. While this should not be the case.
I got your point. Thank you for sharing this.💕
Indeed. Thanks for passing by.
Well marriage is like taking a cult oat. And if a person ain't ready for commitments then marriage scares them even most partners run away after finding out they will be expecting a baby because they ain't ready to become parent. At first it's a beautiful thing but they is a difference between dating and marriage
you seem well experienced. ;)
Thanks for your feedback.
Thanks
Put your efforts into understanding your partner and your expectations will be realistic. Well said, my friend I think it's possible that books and movies can frame our expectations for marriage initially if we do not have a frame of reference, e.g. married parents, etc., to look to. That said though, like you said, after the wedding comes the marriage and it is up to us to build from there.
Thanks for thinking it though.
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I wish people would see this and stop potraying their marriage and relationship with those in the movies. We should be considerate of our partners. Thank you for this
I dropped in from dreemport
I am glad that you found it useful.
It is the small things in life that are the most memorable to me. Always be courteous to your partner and communication is key. And of course, decide who is the popcorn maker in the relationship!
Popped in from dreemport today..
Can we not buy that popcorn? It looks like a couple ruled that you can't take homemade popcorn in a cinema. ;)
haha that is very true!
Movies and novels creates a imagination of how we wish it could be~ it brings inspiration and entertainment.
It shouldn't be compared to reality because movies are staged senario's, real life does not work this way.
Its not easy but if we try not to compare our relationships with others and try not to care what others think of my relationships. Then you will start to see the beauty and happiness of your own relationship. Why? You were too occupied in other things than your own. And the real truth is.... no one really cares.
Its amazing how we perceive the world in such incorrect ways. :) I understand what you are trying to say, and you need to go into the rabbit hole of understanding what "being" is...
Cheers!
It felt personal.
Nope, not personal bro~ I need you to wake up! Take good care of yourself first. Both body and mind. Then do the rest.
Trust me~ :)
movies bring culture, and most of the movies consumed brings American way of life culture which is very consumist =P
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I don't think romantic expectations all stem from movies or novels. Take the honey moon for example. Many women dream of spending their few first few days as a married couple somewhere they haven't been before, movies or not. And if they can afford it, why not? Hehehe. Came in through Dreemport
They should. Early days and memories will not come again but higher expectations than the budget will not be good. !PGM
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