Movies and novels creates a imagination of how we wish it could be~ it brings inspiration and entertainment.
It shouldn't be compared to reality because movies are staged senario's, real life does not work this way.
Its not easy but if we try not to compare our relationships with others and try not to care what others think of my relationships. Then you will start to see the beauty and happiness of your own relationship. Why? You were too occupied in other things than your own. And the real truth is.... no one really cares.
Its amazing how we perceive the world in such incorrect ways. :) I understand what you are trying to say, and you need to go into the rabbit hole of understanding what "being" is...
Cheers!
It felt personal.
Nope, not personal bro~ I need you to wake up! Take good care of yourself first. Both body and mind. Then do the rest.
Trust me~ :)