I always respect parents whenever it comes to parenting, that job is not easy. Some parents get too protective and end up messing things up, others get careless making it even worse and only few become perfect in the end.
I love the word you used "guide" some parents instead of guiding, try to make the child become like them what they failed to understand is that children are not us,they have their unique destinies, the role of a parent is to help them arrive there and prevent them from going astray.