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RE: A relation shouldn't feel like a battle.

in Hive Learners2 days ago

I am selfish and I accept that as a fact. I have a strong sense of self preservation. I will help others only is situation where it benefits me, rarely when its of no benefits. And I believe that it's fine. Don't you think, you have to be in peak conditions of you ever want to help out another one. As for the toxic relationship, everyone has their poison I guess.
I want to help but before helping others i should have a strong footing to. Right? ❤️☮️

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 2 days ago  

How far u will go in detecting the footing when it comes to trusting someone in your family or relation...there might be the case that you give up 100 % but when you need some help they back out.... I helped a lot in my office days, but instead of grateful they took the credit...and ignored my contribution may be I am too lame to understand their intention.

Bhai, Office Office hota.
Company day one se hi zero sum game par chalti hain. Hansi mazak baaki sab apni jagah but kaam apna hona chahiye.
Koi nahi abhi aap relatives ke beech ho, wahan alag ho khel hota hain. 😅

 2 days ago (edited) 

Bhai yahi toh samjhne me time lag gaya...but never gave up fighting the two faced peoole....now learnt a little either to pave away or saying No

Bhai, Say No. Practice it everyday.
You can't make everyone happy.. aur karne ki zarurat bhi nahi. 😅