Vickoly foodoly😂😂, you are a very interesting Comrade.
rather than cry for help, I'll just look for ways to fight the challenges on my own
Yeah man, society has made it abnormal for men to complain or ask for help, as they assume men are strong and should be solely responsible for themselves. And sometimes a problem shared becomes a problem spread. All these has made many of us to be more private with challenges.
But just as you have rightly pointed out, the chances of getting help and support in any case increase the moment we speak up. We all need to trusted friends to help boost our morals when we are down.
You've said it all, the society is one aspect that has made this difficult for many of us and we can help but just depends on our own strength to overcome our difficulties.
But then I'll give it my best to seek up from trusted pal.