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When it comes to protecting or defending a family member, I can say that sometimes it drives me crazy and I defend my loved ones tooth and nail. If it's my children, then I completely lose track of things and make a point of defending them from situations that are more complicated than normal, as has happened to us a few times.
I remember one time a boy hit my son, pushed him and everything else in the condominium where we live, in fact, this is the place where things usually happen and it is theoretically the place where I can best protect them from everything that happens. So on this day, the boy who hit my son was super arrogant, despite being a child, he didn't apologize or anything, then the caretaker showed me the camera images and then I became much more nervous about the situation.
First his older brother appeared, telling me a lot of shit and cursing me, I confronted him saying some things, that his brother hit my son hard and pushed him and even though the caretaker was kind of holding me back not do anything, it was obvious that I wasn't going to do anything with these boys, one was under 12 and the other was probably around 16 years old, but even so the arguments got heated and there was even more talk later with the parents of these boys.
FreepikThe other day, a Saturday, I was called by my wife to speak to the parents of the two boys and well, I could see why they were so arrogant, because the parents were worse, they didn't want to see the images, as they would be embarrassed to see their son attacking mine and they still tried to throw everything at my son, there was no argument, but I said several times that the things they were saying were lies or distorted. I understand that parents must protect their children, but when they are wrong, we must talk and apply the appropriate solutions for them.
Anyway, another time it was with my daughter, one day at home she commented that there was a boy who kept throwing things at her, like stones and soccer balls and she didn't like it, it seems that there was even some aggression like slaps and bites too, a very poorly told story, but even so I tried to understand, I listened to everything she said and then I replied that she shouldn't accept it, especially because she is a girl and if there is a boy hitting her that would be very wrong.
Well, that was in the morning, then later in the afternoon, after lunch, I think it was around 4 in the afternoon and I needed to talk to my daughter, so I called her to a corner away from the other kids to say what I wanted and I noticed that she didn't have a look on her face that was okay, so I asked her what had happened and she said that the boy who had been doing things with her had thrown rocks at her again.
FreepikWell, it made me crazy at the time and I went after the boy, even though I knew it wasn't right, because he was less than 12 years old I think, but even so, I approached him and spoke in a deep and nervous voice for him to stop, because I didn't want my children to hit anyone and I didn't want them to get hit by anyone either (the term hit encompasses everything, throwing things, hitting, biting, etc.) and I was saying some things to him for about 3 minutes and I finished by saying that if he thought it was bad, he could talk to his father and he would come and talk to me because I had a lot to talk about with him.
It was a moment of explosion and I know it's not cool for an adult to be talking to children like that, but there are moments when I can't do it, especially when they do bad things to my children, I get very upset about it. I believe that sooner or later I will end up having fights that could even be physical with the parents of other children, but if it is to protect my children, I will hit or be beaten with pride in being a father who defends his family at all costs!
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Quando se trata de proteger ou defender algum familiar, posso dizer que às vezes me dá umas loucuras e defendo com unhas e dentes meus entes queridos. Se for os meus filhos, aí que perco totalmente a noção das coisas e faço questão de defendê-los de situações mais complicadas do que o normal, como já aconteceu algumas vezes conosco.
Lembro de uma vez que um menino bateu no meu filho, empurrou ele e tudo mais no condomínio onde moramos, aliás, este é o local onde geralmente acontecem as coisas e é teoricamente o lugar onde mais consigo protegê-los de tudo o que acontece. Então neste dia, o menino que bateu no meu filho foi super arrogante, apesar de ser uma criança, não pediu desculpas e nem nada, depois o zelador me mostrou as imagens das câmeras e aí fiquei muito mais nervoso com a situação.
Primeiro apareceu um irmão mais velho dele, me falando um monte de merda e me xingando, confrontei ele falando algumas coisas, de que o irmão dele bateu no meu filho com força e empurrou ele e por mais que o zelador ficou meio que me segurando para não fazer nada, era obvio que eu não iria fazer nada com estes meninos, um menor de 12 e outro deveria ter uns 16 anos, mas mesmo assim foi acirrado o bate boca e ainda teve mais depois com os pais destes meninos.
FreepikNo outro dia, um sábado, fui chamado mais a minha esposa para falar com os pais dos dois meninos e bem, pude ver porque eles eram tão arrogantes, pois os pais eram piores, não quiseram ver as imagens, pois iriam ficar envergonhados de ver o filho deles agredindo o meu e ainda tentaram jogar tudo para cima do meu filho, não houve um bate boca, mas falei várias vezes que as coisas que eles estavam falando eram mentira ou distorcidas. Entendo que os pais devem proteger seus filhos, mas, quando eles estão errados, devemos conversar e aplicar as soluções cabíveis para eles.
Enfim, outra vez foi com a minha filha, certo dia lá em casa ela comentou que tinha um menino que ficava jogando coisas nela, como pedras e bolas de futebol e ela não gostava, parece que houve até mesmo alguma agressão como tapas e mordias também, uma história muito mal contata, mas, mesmo assim tentei entender, escutei tudo o que ela falou e depois respondi que ela não deveria aceitar, ainda mais porque ela é uma menina e se tem um garoto batendo nela isso estava muito errado.
Bem, isso foi na parte da manhã, então depois mais a tarde, depois do almoço, acho que era algo por volta de umas 4 da tarde e eu precisava falar com a minha filha, então chamei ela para um cantinho longe dos outros meninos para falar o que queria e percebi que ela não estava com uma feição no rosto de quem estava bem, então perguntei o que havia acontecido e ela falou que o menino que vinha fazendo as coisas com ela, havia jogado pedra nela novamente.
FreepikPois bem, me deu uma loucura na hora e fui atrás do menino, mesmo sabendo que não era o certo, por ele ter menos de uns 12 anos acho, mas mesmo assim, cheguei nele e falei com a voz grossa e nervoso para ele parar, pois eu não queria que meus filhos batessem em ninguém e assim não queria que eles apanhassem de ninguém também (o termo apanhar engloba tudo, jogar coisas, bater, morder, etc.) e fiquei falando algumas coisas para ele por uns 3 minutos e finalizei falando que se ele achou ruim, podia falar com o pai dele para vim falar comigo que eu tinha muita coisa para falar com ele.
Foi um momento de explosão e sei que não é legal um adulto ficar falando assim com crianças, mas tem momentos que eu não consigo, ainda mais quando fazem maldades com meus filhos, fico muito chateado com isso. Acredito que cedo ou tarde acabarei tendo brigas que podem até ser físicas com os pais de outros meninos, mas se for para proteger meus filhos, baterei ou apanhar com orgulho de ser um pai que defende sua família a todo custo!
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Woo, that was a bad incident you have shared. It is getting hard to protect your children all the time. Sometimes we have to take actions there must be consiqunces but we have to take actions.
We are unable to help and protect our childrens all the time we should teach them self defence so they can't get bullied by others.
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Really, every day that passes, this world gets crazier and I get very worried about my children, about what the future will be like, the world for them and everything, but I try to pass on to them everything I know about how to defend themselves and not letting people do harm to them, even if they are children and everything.
I've thought about putting them in something that teaches self-defense too, some kind of fight or something, it's something to think about in the future. Thanks for the comment!
indeed, the world is getting crazy no doubt about that. Parenting is getting harder day by day. Not sure what is waiting for us in the future I am afraid of that a lot.
yes self-defence is necessary these days you are welcome. have a great day and week ahead.
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Wuhuu that is what parents do for their childrens. Somehow what happen in future but they always try to protect them from evil eye
That's it, it's my mission to protect my little ones, even if I have to get into a fight with other boys, I don't want to see my children doing bad things but I don't want them to get hurt too. As long as I can, I'll protect them.
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Complicado mesmo lidar com a criança dos outros mas as vezes não tem jeito!
pois é, complicado eu entrar no meio e tal, mas para defender meus filhotes é o que fiz algumas vezes kkk
It always good for a father to stand up for his children when bullied or ill-treated by others. Your children would not only be proud of you, you too will be proud of yourself.
I played my role in these moments, they were tense, but I know I did the right thing in defending them, I showed the boys who do these evil things that my children have a father who loves them and defends them. Along with that, I talk to them a lot about not doing this to others, these bad things.
kids'adults personality is defined within their first 5 years
I didn't know that, they are the most important years in the formation of a person's character then! Thanks for sharing this information!
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Negligence of parents and faulty upbringing by parents produce such hoodlums which spread negativity,violence and aggression.
You might be wrong to many ones but i guess you did very right because all that was for the sake of protection of your kid
It's complicated when other children's parents don't seem to care about giving them a good education and teaching them respect and ethics towards people around them, but unfortunately it's part of life, so what I can do is teach my children about it and protect them. as I can!
Thanks for the comment!
Your children will be proud of you, thanks for been a wonderful father to them.
Thank you for this comment, I know I'm not the best father in the world and I'm always trying to improve, but if it affected my children it affected me! So I do everything to protect them!
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It's a good thing that you were able to stand for your children at that critical condition. Am sure those children will guide their behaviors next time around your kids..
Of course, since I took action to confront these children who did these bad things to my children, they have disappeared from the map, that is, they no longer come close to my children, because they have never complained.
Thanks for your comment!
That just makes me so mad! Parents who don't teach their children respect and won't listen when confronted. I hear you, that stuff is unacceptable. I hope your kids are doing okay, it just sad to see people in today's world that still are complete arrogant idiots!
I usually say that there are some children who are children without parents, not because they died or anything like that, but because their parents are very much alive but they don't give their children an education and as a result they live doing whatever they want and mistreating other children, so I take action and defend my children!
Good for you! You have to!
That's it, thanks for the comment!
Eu já fico pra morrer quando implicam com meu irmão, imagino vc com seus filhos... Tem criança q eu tenho vontade de pegar e socar a cabeça na parede, Deus me livre. 👀
kkkkk caramba, pior que da vontade mesmo de pegar uns pestinhas desses e dar umas porrada, com se diz, se os pais não educa a vida educa ou no caso eu kkk
Certos tipos de pessoas realmente não deveriam viver em sociedade. Só fica ligado para não se igualar ao nível delas (algo que certamente tu não deve ser).
Têm uma galera que realmente nem deveria existir neste planeta kk, são muito egoístas e individualistas e por isso se torna difícil a convivência, ainda mais quando passam isso para seus filhos, os famoso filhos sem pai kkk
Deus me livre chegar no mesmo nível que eles, quero não 😂
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protecting your kids is not bad but not on the cost of ethics. Some parents do not understand that if they will not show their kids the right way it will be more harmful for them in further. Kids learn the attitude form the parents only.
This is true, the example is what marks children the most, if they see something bad happening or that their parents act in a wrong or rude way, they will think that this is normal and they will treat other children that way too, thinking that It is okay to throw rocks or punch other children.