Hehe....
I could have written more but it was already longer than most people would want to read.
Can anyone ever match the standard that the Bible sets out? The quick answer is .... no... not possible. I think that's part of the point. Without God helping out it is not humanly possible to match the standard. However, with God all things are possible..... even being a good husband! Of course, perfect is out of the question but I'll keep striving for good enough.
IF a man actually DOES live up to the standard I think it would be a lot easier for women to live up to the obey your husband half. Following someone who is totally devoted to making you a better person? Someone who's only goal is the advancement of the family unit? Someone who is genuinely interested in your wellbeing, your safety, helping you be the best you can be, who sets a perfect example. Way easier to follow that guy than some guy sitting on the couch ordering his wife around.
As for the divorce not existing if people followed it at its core... Consider this verse:
"He said to them, 'Because of the hardness of your hearts, Moses permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning, it was not so.'" (Matthew 19:8, NIV)
God knows that people are imperfect. Some more than others. Divorce is a concession to that imperfection and a mercy to those stuck in a bad relationship.
As for all people following the high standard of marriage? For those who aren't Christian it is a very foolish notion. For those who are Christian it is a daunting task. That's why I wish there were different words to separate a civil union from a marriage. However, there isn't.
So I wish anyone getting married...Good Luck. It's a tough but rewarding journey. Either the best path or the worst one you will ever take.
Your knowledge of the scripture really puts me in awe. You must have dwelt so long with the word.
You have dealt with a lot about marriage here, touching almost all that needs to be touched.
If only we can stick to the word of God the journey of marriage wouldn't be a failure as it is in some homes..
Amen for the good wish, I pray for a better wife and a better home
Haha...
I wish you could join my church group here in Canada. I know what is in the Bible but often has to search for it kind of like "I know its there somewhere". In my church I can mention the statement I'm looking for and he'll know the verse by memory. It's really impressive.
Example: The verse where Paul is teaching and he's so boring a young man falls asleep and falls out a window! I know its there, our group leader knew the book, chapter and verse in less than a second. .....also proof that teachers have been boring throughout history hahaha
I really wish I could join, I want to know more of the word.
You see it never occurred to me that Paul's message was boring to the young man that was why he slept off and fell. My thoughts never got there... 😆
Haha... Paul went on preaching all night long. People are just people, even the best get tired if the teacher doesn't take a break every now and again 😄
If you really want to know more of the word perhaps I'll make a mission for you in the #frugal community someday. I'll pay for you and some friends to get some snacks and watch my church service online---then give me your viewpoints both GOOD and BAD.
Otherwise just send me a topic and I'll do my best to answer....But I think I'll have to invade one of the Christian communities if I do that 😆
I am already being excited on that.. I can't wait for that day.. the word of God can't be exhausted I don't think you will harm any community if you do that.. we are all looking for where to grow and be better christians
If you are excited about getting a mission to watch a church service.....and eat some snacks with some friends then you are the next to be invited to do a mission for the #frugal community. I'm off to work now but I'll make the mission for you to accept or decline in the next day (or maybe two--my tooth really hurts).
True, the word of God can't be exhaused...but the strength of man can. Even the best of us will get tired no matter how good the message :)
Side note: I think today's sermon will be about gender equality so that might be a good one to have you watch..... then again it might be about the evils of racism..... which also might be a good one. I'll have to find out after I go to church tonight.
Okay sir.. please pardon my late replies... 🙏🙏..
I will be waiting for that mission sir.. I am anticipating.. though it's not for the snacks, but for the knowledge 😁😁
Truly, men can go weary, it is even scriptural but when the spirit of God comes upon them, they can run like Elijah for four days and nights without a break🤣🤣..
How was work last week and how was it today??