I worry that my post may have been overly critical about marriage. However, I'd rather people go into marriage expecting the worst and then finding out that it is actually so rewarding in ways that they never expected.
I think that society has placed too much value on self, happiness and love. Too little value on devotion, hard work, co-operation and self-sacrifice. As a result the view or marriage is very different than the reality of marriage.
Marriage done right is beautiful!
As for a fair analysis for both gender....hahaha.... I deliberately avoided the ladies role in marriage as much as I could. I've been married long enough to know I will never understand women. As for being a role model....I'm just a pale copy of the one I'm supposed to be. However, I keep trying.
Thanks for reading and thanks for the kind words.
You will never understand women.
That statement never stops to amuse me.
We aren't that difficult but I don't understand myself either 😂😂😂😃🤓
Hmm...
Perhaps I should say that I never know which wife will show up at any given time. There is grumpy wife, sleepy wife, energetic wife, bored wife, happy wife..... they all look like my wife but all require handling in a different way.
Sometimes I just never know who will show up at any given time 😉