Hello
Stigma is a negative attitude or idea that involves mental and physical, I was once faced with a stigma that made me frustrated with disturbances in thinking so that there was pressure in the brain to always think positively which caused tense nerves and was also very lazy to do activities and at that time the mind will be haunted by negative traits that make us do things that are not appropriate if we do not have good emotional control
The stigma that I feel is a mental suppression stigma that results in social stigma, we used to live very happily after I married a beautiful girl of my choice who became my life partner, after two years of marriage we were blessed with a beautiful daughter we gave her the name salwa salsabila
She grew up healthy we were very happy with all that, day by day month by month and also the years continued to change now the age of our palace has reached twelve years but we have not had any more children, from there we became the subject of ridicule and ridicule from neighbors and also family, I realized it now my family is not doing well
Why is there always a stigma in society? Isn't it all predestined by the creator Allah!
I always instill this question in my mind to deal with the stigma that we experience, I am also surprised by the surrounding community who always invite ridicule and create emotions so that I feel depressed because there are always unpleasant questions about my family, the questions are like heartbreaking and I am really hit hard, they always ask me:
When will you have another child, are you already infertile? No more trouble,🤬
Sometimes I have to leave a meeting because of this question and I am also reluctant to gather with friends and family because of questions like this that hurt my heart, sometimes we think together and think whether we should move and go far from this village so that we no longer receive this ridicule
However, my wife often strengthens me, she says just be patient, maybe this is the best for us from our God so that I can be strong again and can continue my life, so on the other hand I also often strengthen my wife when she gets ridicule from her friends, the community and also her family, the point is we strengthen each other
It is not easy to face and get through a situation like this, I admit that if we lack support from our partner and also lack knowledge about religion, maybe we will easily fall into negative behavior, in situations like this we always divert our thoughts to positive things such as being grateful for the blessings of life that we have and sometimes we have to take vacations often so that we can forget the pressure
Although I have been able to accept the insults and ridicule, until now I still not daring to join my friends who used to mock me and I am also reluctant to socialize with society, I only do what is my duty and obligation, there are no more jokes and entertainment in society and friends
I hope that they all realize that one taunt and insult can hurt other people and can do negative things, hopefully this insult that I experienced will quickly pass and be replaced with happiness and praise.
greetings
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yeah, they always question that as if mocking him
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