What Do You Want to Do With Your Life, Adam?

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Adam wasn’t struggling, not in the way some people were. He had a decent job, a steady paycheck, and a lifestyle that was more than just comfortable. He could afford a nice apartment, eat out whenever he wanted, and even save a little. But there was always this nagging thought in his head—he needed to make more.

It wasn’t just about comfort anymore. It was about freedom. Financial freedom. The kind where he didn’t have to worry about bills, where he could travel whenever he wanted, where he didn’t have to answer to anyone. He spent his days thinking about money, chasing better opportunities, trying to grow his income. He told himself it was for a better future.

Then, one day, he found it. The opportunity.

A friend introduced him to a business idea that had the potential to make him a lot of money. It wasn’t easy, but if he played it right, he could earn more in a year than he had in the last five. He jumped in without hesitation. Long hours, endless calls, late nights—it didn’t matter. He was focused.

And it worked.

Within a year, Adam’s bank account had numbers he had never seen before. He could afford things he used to only dream of. He was finally in a position where money was no longer a problem. But something strange happened.

It didn’t feel like he thought it would.

He had more money, but life wasn’t more exciting. The stress didn’t disappear. The feeling of wanting more hadn’t gone away—it had just shifted. Now, instead of worrying about making money, he worried about what to do with it. Instead of feeling free, he felt lost.

One evening, Adam sat alone in his expensive apartment, staring at his phone. He had no one to call. He had been so focused on his work that he had let friendships fade. His family barely saw him. His life had become a cycle of work, earnings, and an empty kind of success.

Maybe it wasn’t money he had been searching for. Maybe it was something else.

Over the next few weeks, Adam tried something different. He reached out to an old friend and had dinner without checking his phone. He spent time with his parents, just talking. He joined a local sports club and played for fun, not for competition.

And something changed.

For the first time in a long time, he felt present. The stress that had been weighing him down started to lift. He laughed more. He felt lighter.

That’s when he realized—chasing money had been a distraction. It wasn’t the goal. It was just a means to something else, something deeper.

What that was, he wasn’t sure yet. But for the first time, he was asking himself the right question:

"What do I actually want to do with my life?"