Of recent, I was advised by @samostically to explore more communities on the Hive blockchain. So with this write-up, I have decided to contribute my writing, or writ like some would call it, to the FREE WRITERS COMMUNITY.
In this article, I just want to talk about what life would look like without the hurdles it brings our way once in a while.
Lately, I would really admit it hasn't been easy or smooth, times have come with their difficulty, giving me that feeling that I should probably quit or stop trying hard. For me, the worst part is am a guy with huge dreams and big ambitions which means I have to work hard for what I want or the comfortable life I want to live.
I must say ADULTHOOD IS NOT ALL A BED OF ROSES
I am sure most people had to figure this out when in the adulthood zone. I even remember how I wanted to be an adult so badly while growing up as a child. The thought of being far away from home in order to build respect for myself amongst my parents and other family members gave me this blossoming glow within. The thought filled my mind most times and most especially when I got scolded for doing something naughty as a child. I had that adulthood fantasy growing strongly in my mind and it was something like this
Oh, someday I will get to be the boss of my affairs, no need to gain permission from anyone before I get to do whatever I want to do or submit a budget list of what I want to do with cash before getting the cash and at the same time I would be making cool cash through several cash inflows, living life large and a little reckless when necessary, and the most crucial of all PARTY HARD. I even went ahead to fantasize how I will fall madly in love and make some sweet sweet love in bed with the lady I love.
Hey, News flash
It hasn't been all I fancy as I fantasized.
I think the syntax error comes from the fact that I didn't also fantasize about how fucked up adulthood could get or how finding love could be hard sometimes. I didn't even stop for a second to think how was I going to get so much money needed for the adventurous lifestyle I hope for. I didn't have a damn skill, I didn't even think about having a high-standard degree and the sad part of it all is I'm not a rich kid or a good-looking prince with some tied-up inheritance to his name.
So in today's American Saying
Over time, it took some harsh reality of things and a few breakups here and there to finally realize
LIFE WON'T ALWAYS GO AS YOU PLANNED OR HOPED FOR, LOTS OF FUCK-UPS ARE BOUND TO HAPPEN.
It took some ass-whooping from life before I finally learned.
In the end, everything can't move smoothly as you plan it would but it can always work out better if you keep going. One thing that is quite helpful is how things can still work better if you just keep going. Nobody says it would be easy and still nobody said it won't work out.
With this in mind, it will all play out and you will reap the benefit of your consistency.
ONE THING THAT IS SURE IS TO KEEP GOING
