Understanding catharsis as a way to purify the soul, to remove a pain that involves a deep wound in our being, through some expression that helps to drain everything that has accumulated inside us and that somehow is causing damage to us as individuals and to our family environment.
Although I do not fully understand how catharsis works and if there is a verifiable result that actions like these can heal wounds of the soul. I am referring to a form of catharsis to be able to find an ear willing to pay attention, a soul that is open to receive through the verb what one day experienced in his being, and also could overcome it, that person who can really say -I was there at a time in my life, but I got up, Wooo how powerful that would be-
however, when your wounds still bleed, there is a risk that deep inside you, any phrase or speech of encouragement may sound hypocritical, you may think that no one can understand your pain, and so it is difficult to heal you. .. Well, well, well, well, then when you don't have the possibility to talk to someone, write, unload everything you have through the keyboard and let him help you to drain all the anger, impotence and pain that you carry inside.
Loyalty, simply loyalty
I understand that loyalty is that quality of valuing, showing respect and fidelity to a person, family group, to some thought, determined conduct, projects, etc.; it is a quality that we value a lot, that sometimes we demand and we would like to be objects of it, but that many times it is difficult to show.
Loyalty often goes unnoticed and is undervalued in some cases and for various reasons, it seems that when you are the object of it and you have at your side people who value you, respect you and are loyal, this quality becomes imperceptible, and there gains strength the popular saying "Nobody knows what he has until he loses it".
It is until you suffer a betrayal when you really understand the value of loyalty, it is then when it becomes painful to wake up and realize that someone to whom you dedicated time of your life, effort, effort, commitment and material resources somehow did not value everything you gave unreservedly.
At times like these everything becomes confusing, we are assaulted by doubt and questions arise that are like spears piercing the soul: Seriously I did not know how to value when they were loyal? What things did I do wrong? I am guilty of their attitude?, it is a very confusing situation and everything is within the realm of possibility.
I also think that loyalty is a decision of each person, that is, I decide to be loyal even in the most unfavorable conditions, and although the attitude and mistakes of the other may somehow affect the relationship in marriage, work relationship, friendship, financial etc, I should not use the mistakes of the other as a justification for my actions, this is just my way of thinking.
Friends, at all these, betrayal is a dagger that hurts and hurts a lot, but at the same time it makes you reflect and you start to look behind and try to find your weak points, the mistakes you made with that person, to try to restore the relationship or to avoid that the mistakes are repeated in the future with others.
**Have you ever been betrayed? If so, you understand very well what I am writing, what I am trying to get out with this publication, but do not make the mistake of hastily judging the one who betrays you, it is possible that he or she is not entirely to blame, examine the whole trajectory, it is possible that the blame is shared, and although I think, as I mentioned above that we should not see the mistakes of the other as a justification for our decisions and actions, it is possible that a systematic and repeated attitude of your art had a high level of influence for the final result.
Now, none of the above justifies a disloyal and treacherous attitude, and although all this generates a deep burden of sadness and pain, everything eventually passes and the wounds heal, there may be consequences, but if there is willingness on both sides I think that trust can be restored, surely it will cost effort, but it can be achieved.
Friends, every person is worthy of a new opportunity, one of the most beautiful qualities of life that a human being can exhibit, is forgiveness, in the Bible we find three concepts that come to my mind at this moment, JUSTICE, GRACE and MERCY; JUSTICE is about giving everyone what they DESERVE, MERCY is about sympathy, forgiveness and letting go, but GRACE although it is very similar to MERCY goes further, MERCY proposes forgiveness with opportunities and service.
JUSTICE takes a thief and imprisons him for his crime, MERCY grants forgiveness to the same thief and sets him free, but GRACE, GRACE takes this same thief, forgives his fault, sets him free and takes him home to attend to his needs.
A small disclaimer from a servant, I appreciate all your comments!
Written hours after selling the last of the asset given to you, which had appreciated the most in value. Interesting timing ...
Yes my friend, it seems like a great coincidence. Sometimes it takes some sacrifices to put bread on the table, that's also what loyalty is all about. It is hard to understand these actions when someone is struggling to build a future for their family, it is a very thoughtful decision after several difficult weeks.
It is very difficult in our country to survive a family of 11 people with only one salary.
But I am still working on my plan and maybe I will re-invest again.
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Now I will say this, I am a man with a strengthened and renewed character, I have lived through some difficult things the last few days related to the loyalty of people I love, that same strength of character that today led me to choose for the bread of my family, makes me aware that I have to remain focused on building a future for my family, I believe that this is circumstantial and I will rise, I am working to make this one of my best years, and the savings and investment objectives I will achieve because I am determined to do so.
The same force that drove me to "spend" that investment position will drive me to continue with the plan to strengthen our economy. The strength of love for my family.
Blessings, take care of yourself, you are loved from this side.
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Perhaps. Much could be said, in response, but … To be charitable, this account will let it pass …
Why has anything at all been stated, in response to this post?
This account has been linked to providing this to you, as a recipient. Until exhausted …
Now?
While no details are contained (nor are they being requested!) in what you have written, it would appear the Lord of Lords and the King of Kings has ordained that you are currently in the process of experiencing the other side …
Your readers find no mention of Him, but this account will close by assuring you the historic gap between what you say and what you do will remain intact, if not increase, without His enabling grace and resurrection power to overcome and close it.
For which, if that day ever arrives, He and He alone should receive the praise, glory, and honor. All of it …
Hi @life.bank, hope you are very well.
I had not responded to this comment for two specific reasons, firstly because I wanted to have time to mull over a response, and secondly because I have been helping my wife with a heavy workload these days; namely the development of a school project and a training for school principals that I start this week.
Yes, the truth is that I have lived a very difficult and unexpected family situation, I will say that it is a very difficult process that is working with my pride, and lack of forgiveness, a situation that hits me and makes me believe that I will not be able to overcome, however, I do not give up even though I have told my Father Creator that I lack the strength, that only He can get me out of this pit.
In addition to all this, what I explained before in relation to the family and the economic challenges that we are facing.
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Deception?... Honestly I am very sorry, and maybe this is a direct allusion, but I must remember that I am doing my best without trying to justify what I do, it is possible that I am wrong, on one occasion someone mentioned that I could use the resources as I wanted, knowing that I have tried to stay within the advice I received at some time, applying the initial plan, now, with the freedom to operate there are decisions that we are forced to make, for example, to adjust to the plan or feed the children, and although I have decided to feed the family we have not abandoned the initial plan, it is just a stop along the way with some position that we plan to replace in the future.
I think it is too soon to make a judgment about that, let's see how we are at the end of the year, and make a more objective judgment.
I hope that what I am trying to express is well understood, and the gap mentioned ends up being reduced, that gap between what I say and what I do.
Thank you very much and Blessings.
I would like to ask: How can I use this resource?
Given your history with this account, it is noteworthy you have asked. That said and stating the obvious, it appears someone put funds into your wallet, not the wallet of this account.
Therefore, it appears you are in your long preferred position of being free to do with them whatever you want. Free of any accountability …
At least … In this world …