I want to talk about relationships. I said money can't buy love, but I'm confused. I'm in love and I love the woman very much, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. The problem is I don't have the money for the necessities, and she wants to get married because of pressure from her parents and siblings. I don't want to lose her to another man because I love her very much, and she always encourages me when I get discouraged. She wants to marry me, but she wants me to go through the whole marriage transition process, which involves money, especially in our culture. I asked her, and she told me she can't follow a man home without paying anything for her head. You know, the Nigerian economy is very tough right now. The situation in the country is difficult, and it's not easy for some young people who talk more about money than marriage. Like I said, I don't want to lose her to another man because I love her very much. Someone advised me to leave her, but it's not easy at all. I told her to calm down and move on, even though I knew she was suffering in that house. I wish I could help myself because I'm totally confused about what to do about this. I really need help. It's not that I'm in a hurry to marry her, but I'm afraid of losing her. In this situation, what can I do to get her back? I hope she calms down and we move forward calmly, but she insisted that if I'm not ready to marry her, she'll marry another man because she can't keep leaving her home in so much pain. It's ridiculous, but right now I have no other choice because I don't have the money to get married. I'm so hurt by this. I need help. Thank you for your time, and God bless.
You are really doing well
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Good write up ♥️ brother please never you discouraged consistency is key in hive good job ♥️👋👋👋
Thank you sir
Follow your heart always do what is right never allow people to decide for you but listing to their opinion before making any step.
As the lady it good to share your problem to your loved ones but don't allow the her problem to push you to something else, creat Time together open up(both) heart together let her know that having material things won't help but wait in the the Lord for perfect timing.
Thank you sir.
Thank you so much brother. I appreciate it