Flattened ego, I had sort of an idea what it means but I thought it was wise to search for its meaning. I did and it remained awkwardly silent on the World Wide Web. The flattened ego doesn't exist. AI never heard of it or can be "flattened ego" is a forbidden search to keep up appearances we all are great souls, people with strong and healthy opinions, no drama kings or cry babies needing a weekly shrink and whimpering on social media because of all the unfairness done to them. Not to mention all those anxieties and everyone shares freely as Americans did in the 80s bragging about the fact they have their private shrink and it's great to have a huge lack of self-respect and it's fine to scream at the top of your lungs and aim a gun at a stranger's face. It's all due to a flattened ego but an ego can not be flattened if you never had one since what I read on the internet (yes AI teaches you a lesson about how to crumble and die) is that having an ego is BAD!
If you are raised like that by parents, kindergarten, schools, more schools, commercials, games, Hollywood, and society (or what is left of it) you never learn to meet yourself and develop an ego. Ego is you, your inner self, your individuality the person you are. Knowing who you are has nothing to do with a big ego but with self-confidence and self-respect, accepting who you are and what you want, and being satisfied.
Of course, after searching a bit longer I did find a site and although this is meant for school kids and in my eyes, pathetic a girl should flatter an INSECURE boy his ego (never do that before you know that ego is HUGE and a guy with a BIG ego is a burden to be with)
If you are interested here is the link if you have a guy like this dump him. He will be the burden of your life and will never support you.