Impossible Loves and My Crushes – Past and Present // Amores Imposibles y Mis Enamoramientos – Pasado y Presente

in Hive Argentina 🇦🇷5 days ago (edited)

image source

This is honestly such a juicy and interesting topic because I’ve had quite a number of crushes—some possible, some completely impossible, and some that just ended up being funny wh. en I look back at them. And of course, like many people, I’ve also had celebrity crushes that I know deep down would never happen.

One of my biggest celebrity crushes right now is Coco Jones. I first saw her in Bel-Air as Hilary Banks, and she immediately caught my attention. She’s just too fine! At some point, I realized I was watching the show more because of her than the actual storyline. Later, I found out she’s also a musician and even sang with Ayra Starr, which made me admire her even more. She has a beautiful voice, a nice shape, and an overall stunning look. I won’t lie—I’ve caught myself staring at her pictures and videos more times than I’d like to admit.

Now, realistically, I know it’s impossible for us to be together. She’s a huge celebrity, and I’m just here crushing from a distance. But I do hope I get to meet her one day because, honestly, I really love everything about her. If that ever happens, I have no idea what I’d even say, but I’d definitely make sure to take a picture with her.

Moving on from celebrity crushes, let’s talk about real-life crushes—the ones that were right in front of me but never actually went anywhere.

Back in secondary school, I had a crush on this girl in my class. She was not too dark,not too fair, she had a nice body shape, and something about her just made me feel drawn to her. But there was a problem—she had this frowning face that always saying "don't you dare come close". I on the other hand, was shy and was never bold enough to approach her, which made things even more impossible.

The funny thing is, I recently came across her on Snapchat after so many years, and i still find her attractive . But at this point, I feel like it’s still impossible because she has already graduated from university, meaning she could have a boyfriend or even be engaged. And honestly, I don’t think she’d like me back. But hey, I might still try my luck and shoot my shot—you never know! But for now, I would just keep admiring her from a distance.

Another major crush from my secondary school days was this girl who joined us in SS1. She was taller than me, and for some reason, I really liked her. Unlike my other crushes, I actually tried my best with her—I approached her and shot my shot multiple times. But guess what? I got rejected alot of times than i can count. I was just so consistent and had that believe I would eventually win her heart if i put more energy and effort but then she still never accepted my love for her. Thinking about it now, I was probably very stupid because I just kept trying to impress her even when she made it clear she wasn’t interested.

She was literally like my first love because she was the first girl that actually made me cry after I finally gave up. It was very painful and i was really heartbroken, but at the same time, it was a lesson. Some people just won’t like you no matter how much effort you put in, and that’s okay.

Looking back at all these crushes, I realize that some were truly impossible loves while others were just missed chances. But one thing is for sure—I had my fair share of crushing on people, both in reality and in the celebrity world.

I invite @oyebola and @olamihan to also participate in this contest.

Thanks for reading.

Spanish Version

Este es, sinceramente, un tema muy jugoso e interesante porque he tenido bastantes enamoramientos: algunos posibles, otros completamente imposibles y algunos que, al mirar atrás, simplemente me resultan graciosos. Y, por supuesto, como muchas personas, también he tenido enamoramientos por celebridades que, en el fondo, sé que nunca sucederán.

Uno de mis mayores enamoramientos por una celebridad en este momento es Coco Jones. La vi por primera vez en Bel-Air como Hilary Banks, y de inmediato captó mi atención. ¡Es demasiado hermosa! En un momento me di cuenta de que veía la serie más por ella que por la historia en sí. Más tarde, descubrí que también es cantante e incluso hizo una canción con Ayra Starr, lo que hizo que la admirara aún más. Tiene una voz hermosa, una figura increíble y un aspecto en general impresionante. No voy a mentir: me he sorprendido a mí mismo mirando sus fotos y videos más veces de las que me gustaría admitir.

Ahora bien, siendo realista, sé que es imposible que estemos juntos. Ella es una gran celebridad, y yo solo estoy aquí suspirando desde la distancia. Pero espero poder conocerla algún día porque, sinceramente, me encanta todo sobre ella. Si eso alguna vez sucede, no tengo idea de qué le diría, pero definitivamente me aseguraría de tomarme una foto con ella.

Pasando de los enamoramientos por celebridades, hablemos de los enamoramientos de la vida real, esos que estaban justo frente a mí pero que nunca llegaron a nada.

En la secundaria, tuve un enamoramiento por una chica de mi clase. No era ni muy morena ni muy clara, tenía una figura bonita y había algo en ella que simplemente me atraía. Pero había un problema: tenía esa expresión de "ni se te ocurra acercarte". Yo, por otro lado, era tímido y nunca tuve el valor de hablarle, lo que hacía que todo fuera aún más imposible.

Lo gracioso es que hace poco la encontré en Snapchat después de muchos años y todavía me parece atractiva. Pero en este punto, siento que sigue siendo imposible porque ya se graduó de la universidad, lo que significa que podría tener novio o incluso estar comprometida. Y, siendo honesto, no creo que le guste. Pero bueno, quizás intente probar suerte y lanzar mi tiro—¡nunca se sabe! Por ahora, solo seguiré admirándola desde la distancia.

Otro gran enamoramiento de mis días en la secundaria fue una chica que se unió a nuestra clase en SS1. Era más alta que yo y, por alguna razón, me gustaba mucho. A diferencia de mis otros enamoramientos, con ella realmente lo intenté: me acerqué y lancé mi tiro varias veces. ¿Y adivina qué? Me rechazaron más veces de las que puedo contar. Fui muy persistente y tenía la creencia de que eventualmente ganaría su corazón si ponía más esfuerzo y energía, pero aun así nunca aceptó mi amor por ella.

Ella fue literalmente mi primer amor porque fue la primera chica que realmente me hizo llorar cuando finalmente me di por vencido. Fue muy doloroso y me rompió el corazón, pero al mismo tiempo, fue una lección. Algunas personas simplemente no te querrán, sin importar cuánto esfuerzo pongas, y eso está bien.

Mirando atrás, me doy cuenta de que algunos de estos enamoramientos fueron amores verdaderamente imposibles, mientras que otros fueron simplemente oportunidades perdidas. Pero una cosa es segura: he tenido mi buena dosis de enamoramientos, tanto en la realidad como en el mundo de las celebridades.

Invito a @oyebola y @olamihan a participar también en este concurso.

¡Gracias por leer!

Posted Using INLEO

Sort:  

Este post ha sido votado y curado por el equipo Hive Argentina | Participa en nuestro Trail de curación.

  • Pasa por la comunidad Hive Argentina y comparte tus creaciones. ¡Bienvenidos!

This post has been voted and curated by the team Hive Argentina | Participate in our Curation Trail.
Stop by the community and share your creations - welcome!

Ahhh you even cried, it's really a first love story 🥹
Some love stories just can't work or end well, but it's beautiful to experience it in the beginning.

I love Coco Jones too, didn't know she starred in Bel-Air. I'll see it soon.

She has actually being in the movie for a long time now but then the one I watched was the last season that dropped last year. You should definitely see it soon,it is actually a very interesting movie.

Yeah, I've seen "Let It Shine", one of the oldest movies she has starred in.

Ooh I think I have seen it somewhere but I have never watched it.

You should see it, it's old but interesting

Okay so where can I watch it??

I'm not sure, it's been long I saw it but you can check Moviebox or watch on YouTube

De esos amores de secundaria tengo algunos también, pero no estudiaban conmigo y ellos nunca me miraron, iban a mi escuela de señoritas por mis compañeras de clases.
Gracias por participar en nuestra iniciativa.

Of those high school sweethearts I have some too, but they did not study with me and they never looked at me, they went to my school for girls because of my classmates.
Thank you for participating in our initiative.

We have all at some point those who had a crush on several people. Some we know we can never or be in a relationship with.

I think we all have had that crush for a public figure, you are not the only one hahahaha and also loves that really have not been given for different reasons, as in your case, look that you learned painfully that even if you love someone that does not mean that person will return the feeling back no matter how hard you try, I would say life experiences. I loved reading it, thanks for sharing it, greetings!