Finally, we decided on having our first date. I didn't know what to wear for the date, so I checked my wardrobe and couldn't find anything other than trousers and tops and my church clothes. I don't usually go out but if I had to I would put on any of my jeans and a top of which I am very comfortable with.
So, I finally considered jeans and a top with flat slippers since it's almost dark so there was no need to get overly dressed. I felt like I had to delay a little in order not to be waiting for him to arrive but he arrived earlier than the set time and was waiting for me.
When I got to the venue, I stood outside and placed a call to him and then he came out to pick me up.
First, he wasn't the same person in the picture that he sent to me 🙅. I guess my expectations were blown off. He was looking darker and plump although he was still looking good but I thought he was fair and had abs I mean broad chest.
Secondly, he looked neat and seriously dressed that I felt I didn't dress up to his standard, my gosh! He is wearing a suit with a tie just like a groom ready to tie his knot to his bride 😬.
I mean, 🙎 I spoke highly of this guy in my imaginations all the while we chatted.
So, he seems not too happy to see me though I had noticed that through his expression probably because of how I dressed, I guess 💁. He ushered me in and we started talking. We made our orders, actually this was where the village attitude in him was unleashed, his suit couldn't save him. We ordered rice and chicken with soda. When he was done eating, he used his hands to remove some stucked meat on his teeth and put it back in his mouth instead of requesting for a floss. How can a grown ass man do such in public.
While we were talking he kept using the word "mehn" It was obvious in all our conversations. And I think he was injected with a laughing portion from the previous Halloween. 🤦 He laughed unnecessarily which was annoying. That suit, urrgh! He was sweating 🫠😅 the weather was too hot yet he wore suit, I guess to impress me🤷.
I was silent for the rest of the evening. He lacked some social attitude. After we left for our different homes, he called me but I didn't pick up. I later called but instead of a normal conversation he started off with complaining about my outfit, my hair. He said I looked like I was going on an errand for my mom, can you believe that? 😕 I hung up on him...yeah! I did that. It crazy listening to his nagging, I felt I needed more appreciation than nagging.
First,🤷 I was comfortable in what I was wearing. Maybe I needed a little touch up but like I said I was comfortable in what I was wearing.
Secondly, that was the real me in reality. That was me being my true self💁. What more can a man ask for? I think he needs a plastic lady. It's expensive and uncomfortable to be plastic but cheap to be real and comfortable and I ain't got cash for a plastic personality. Not then not now, period!
But as for him I couldn't tell him about his social attitude and how it disgusts me, I just let him be and that was the last time we spoke because he had blocked me from his page, WhatsApp and calls. What's my offense?
Image credit is mine
Each person think in their ways. May be he thought you would wear a gorgeous dress. You choose comfortably but from his side he might think you didn't take him serious and for that reason you wore normal dress. it depends of perspective. By the way, I don't have any dating experience 😅.
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Lolz! I can't have myself feeling uncomfortable while on a date or anywhere. I hate stress, if you love me then love everything about me including my simplicity.
Hehe. I think you are right but everyone is not the same. Some love simplicity and some love gorgeous. May be that person didn't like simplicity and finally it was not a person for you.
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Is the removing meat from your teeth with his hand for me 😁😁😁.
Some bad attitude needs to be dealt with at early age
You are right. I think he is use to doing it and he doesn't see anything wrong with it, I would've told him to his face but... 🤐
Hahahaha sometimes it's good to mind your business
Yeah.
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Both yourself and the guy have wahala and should have done better.😂
But picking his teeth with bare hands? I may just puke at the sight😩
Seriously, that is a very bad habit especially when it is done publicly.
Omo 😅😀 it's the way you finished this guy for me 😂 I come even dey pity the guy. But you why did you not dress in your own wedding gown sef.
You're right anyways, in life we need to be real, faking what you don't have won't take you any where, like that your guy😂😂
He failed woefully.
Why did he make such a comment over you,
" you look like an errand girl to your mum" 😂😂😂, you of all people that has found a date? The guy is funny on his own 🤣🤣
Lolz!😂 Are you teasing me? 😕
I was just referring to what he told you, after all you are ok 🙂
Alright. Thanks 😂😂
😃😃😃😃 You self you no try o, person wear suit wey you self for wear wedding gown.
This is to show that no matter how you dress, you can't still hide the kind of person you are. With your simple and comfortable outfit you had more social graces than him.
It's the audacity for me, calling to complain when all the red flags are visible. Uncle abeg shift.
#dreemerforlife
Lolz! I guess you would've done worse than I did, right? Your blood is boiling 😂😂😂
😃😃😃😃 100°C boiling point. Abeg I hate what I don't like.
😂😂😂😂 Action Momma! Do anyhow you will see anyhow. Lolz!
I wonder what your offense was oo lol
Obvious, the guy wasn't a serious dude and he has a low IQ lol
At least, you you guys had been able to establish a good communication during the date, those concerns would have been addressed, since its not like you guys were just talking for the first time.
Yeah! I mean: addressing it respectfully would have worked out but I guess he was on the look out for plastic made ladies.
My dear sis I feel you on, this is some miss out on good or real ladies and go for packaged ladies with emptiness, then they blame their ancestors and innocent village people.
The blocking is good in my opinion good riddance to bad rubbish.
#dreemerforlife
I am glad you see reasons with me😅
Yep....... I had to see reason because I don't like it when a man disrespects a woman
Exactly.
Only if you have knew and didn't go for the date 😁
No! I am glad I did because the experience prepared me for my next 🙂