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RE: The way we're entwined

in Self Improvement3 years ago

You are the people you surround yourself with.

That is what I always keep in mind.

And that is exactly why I maintain a fair bit of distance from a handful of people. It's not like they're all evil or full of negativity, they're good people actually. But their approach towards a few certain things and their impulsive lifestyle choices just don't match with my way of living.

So, maintaining distance is the only option I have for now I guess.

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I agree that distance is sometimes the only option, and often the best. A lot of people think they can make a positive difference, and they possible can for a time, but ultimately, the negative peron needs to do that for themselves. It's usually possible, if they wish to make it happen.

but ultimately, the negative person needs to do that for themselves

Exactly, I really stopped trying too hard. I used to "care too much" but now I guide and suggest a fair few times, and then I'm out, the rest is up to them.

It seems like you're on the right track.

Hopefully 🙏