This is typical someone like me ,apart from restraining from alcohol I also have many brothers that I have Vowed that I don’t want to end up like this ,not only in alcohol aspect many ways ,talk of womanizer and mismanagement of funds ,the truth is their way of learning from other people experience ,sometime in life we don’t have to go through something regret it and later learn from the experience,we Might learn from other people mistake also
I agree with you, we can decide not to be like somebody in many aspects. It is also essential because it makes us aware of things around us and decides against it. I am also one of those who use this ideology just because I understand the consequences.