We too are try to set things up for our son in a way to help him out but what I’m struggling with is when to do that. My wife is thinking when he turns 21 but I’m thinking 25 or 30, so he doesn’t fuck things up early and has to live and work a bit before he gets some of the assistance that we’ve been saving for him.
We aren’t going to get shit from my wife’s parents and it’s debatable if we are getting anything from mine but we just roll with it. You deal with the cards you’re dealt!
You know how someone mentioned lifting the voting age in the US to 25? There is a bit of wisdom in that, isn't there? Thinking how culture changed - an 18 year old 60 years ago was starting their career, at 23 getting married with a kid and getting a house. A 25 year old these days still lives at home and mum does the laundry!