2/ 🧵 In my house, I'm the third born and I had one satisfaction then when I happened to achieve something far higher than my elder brother. Even if we both fail, if mine is 26% and his own is 10% I feel satisfied not minding if I fail or not. By doing so, there is a reflex sense of pressure on my elder brother to step up.
For me, I saw this as unhealthy competition when I discovered purpose.