1/ 🧵 In many homes - not just limited to African homes, parents are faced with the issue of seeing their kids competing with themselves. Commonly, the younger one always tends to outshine the eldest #mayinleo #threadstorm #outreach
1/ 🧵 In many homes - not just limited to African homes, parents are faced with the issue of seeing their kids competing with themselves. Commonly, the younger one always tends to outshine the eldest #mayinleo #threadstorm #outreach
2/ 🧵 In my house, I'm the third born and I had one satisfaction then when I happened to achieve something far higher than my elder brother. Even if we both fail, if mine is 26% and his own is 10% I feel satisfied not minding if I fail or not. By doing so, there is a reflex sense of pressure on my elder brother to step up.
For me, I saw this as unhealthy competition when I discovered purpose.
3/ 🧵 Have you had an experience of being pressured by your younger sibling? Can you share your story? #gosh
https://inleo.io/@johnuko/the-dynamics-of-sibling-competition-understanding-the-pressure-on-the-eldest