You mean, we should forgive ourselves for allowing the other person come close enough to inflict the wounds in the first place?
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You mean, we should forgive ourselves for allowing the other person come close enough to inflict the wounds in the first place?
Well, you could put it like that, but that does not take full responsibility. It's like we have emotional patterns imprinted in us by parents mostly. These are mostly blockages of energy. Our energy pattern attracts people to us to trigger us so we can re-feel the feelings which imprinted the pattern in us. We can mentally thank them, dismiss the messenger, and direct our attention on the feeling instead of the "story". Repetition of this will gradually relax the tension (unintegrated emotion) so we no longer attract people to trigger us. This is a very bruef explanation - best to do the Presence Process Procedure.
The wounds have already been inflicted ( progamming us to think we are separate beings in early childhood, birth, etc). The other is there to reflect our wounds so we can integrate them. They are by One to act in that way. They know not what they do.
Ps. This may also be helpful (see images in these comments):
https://ecency.com/hive-167922/@leothreads/leothread-2025-02-23-00-00#@atma.love/re-freecompliments-ss4ong
and
https://ecency.com/hive-167922/@leothreads/leothread-2025-02-23-00-00#@atma.love/re-freecompliments-ss4ovx