Despite not knowing what the new political scene may bring, a change from a governing body that put themselves first and the citizens they represented second, hopefully, will improve many of the conditions that have plagued your area for so long.
Dear Lizelle, you have dealt with so much over the past year and still, you persevere with such class.
Donna Ashworth's words speak so much truth, words that will come into play for all of us that love so deeply.
Thank you my friend, I do often think of you and Robin, and have read about her fears of losing you. Knowing how close you are, I fully understand it.
You are both such an inspiration to many of us here on Hive!
There are a couple of things that I'm thankful for; I know I will meet my Arthur one day, in another realm if course. I also realized early on, that I'm at least saving him the pain of having to deal with losing me. I never knew just how bad it would be!
As for the political scene, I think we're in for a rough ride, here in our province especially, as the new party that won by a big margin in KZN, can be very militant.
We can only pray.
I truly appreciate the sincere encouragement from both you and Robin ever since that awful day. It will be a year next month!
Fiona lost her husband last year 5 June, so it's a difficult time for her.
Just recently, Robin has expressed this fear to me, not knowing how she could live if I were to pass. She tells me that she hopes she goes first. Knowing that this notion of me passing and her worrying about that is very unsettling. I can understand her concern and remind her that our four children would be there for her at every turn.
This line from Desiderata is one of my favorites. (But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.) It's a stark reminder to live in the moment and not worry about what may happen in the future.
Losing one's soulmate and the pain that follows can never be truly realized until that devastating time comes. We are the fortunate ones because we loved beyond words and because of that, great suffering will follow.
Thank the Lord for our children, without them who would we turn to?
The passing of time doesn't heal all it just takes some of the pain and puts it on the back burner.
I wish both Fiona and yourself can find some peace of mind during these times and allow fond memories of the men you so loved to wash over you.
Peace be with you, my friend!